Hi, I have the following case here: Dated a girl for some time (about 2 months). She values herself very high and was quite hard to get (lot's of shit tests, etc). I acted very dominant so far, which she liked a lot, as I also value myself high.

We met now many times, the last 3 times I had sex with her that she enjoyed a lot. She said I was good and so on and she honestly meant it. We spent a lot of time together.

The strange part is: With all the other girls I have slept with, after having sex they started to chase me. Like proposed to do something, "she" initiated contact first.

With the current target it seems to be different. She also said "she enjoys life because she can make guys fall in love with her". So she is dominant herself and obviously likes it when guys are chasing her.

Therefore my question: How should I proceed? Shall I continue chasing her? I feel that this is what all the guys are doing. So I was even planning to have a freeze out and make myself a bit rare. For me this seems only strange at this stage since I had already sex with her 3 times. Any thoughts?

The only reason she said that was because to make you feel jealous and afraid to lose her.
Just ignore these useless comments, girls, especially attractive ones, use them all the time.
Don't make yourself TOO available, but don't pull away too much neither.
Be casual, I see that you're on the right track.

if you are sleeping with her regularly, you are doing fine. You don't have to be gaming all the time.

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Met her again and had sex. She enjoyed it a lot.

I actually "pushed" for the meeting, so she seems to like that.

What does it mean though when after sex, she starts to talk about her Ex and other guys who are 'handsome'? Is that just a shit-test or does it mean more?

shit test, wants to validate decision to ride you

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Now after some days passed, I can agree with you. She is much more into me than she admits. Invited her to a party, she brought her best friend. The best friend "knew" everything about me.

She also had time during the weekend for me although she is busy, so this is going into the right direction... She also started to ask how I see relationships and so on. So she wants more..

Thanks for all your replies! Indeed, helpful..