I truely hate it when this happends, my brother got an injury so i cant go snowboarding anymore, my friends are in an annoying situation where i'd rather just take some distance (some bs among them) so i'm spending a lot of my time sitting home playing games with my bro. It's been about 2-3 weeks like this and i feel like my mindset has been destroyed again. There's not much feeling to go out, i always search for excuses whilst before i would take every offer, do everything considered nuts and now i'm sitting in a shell of fear so to say. On top of that there was some messaging between me and this hb9, when i asked her to tell me about herself she told me ''she'd rather go out for a drink and talk about things that way''.. I'm unsure of how to handle it cause i dont feel like my old predator self. Need advice on some mental boosting.

Dude I was in the same boat. I used to tear it up then I somehow developed a social anxiety to the point I was literally scared to go to a sports bar to watch a game. I just forced myself out of it, but at the time I had no one to go out with I wanted to go out alone like and meet ppl but I was too scared so I started off slow. Check out this website www.badboylifestyle.com. There's a good artlicle on there about going out alone and dealing eith anxiety it helped me out. As far as the hb9 get yourself together and go out with her before she moves on and you lose her!! Good luck!

go have sex?

Life is full of up's and downs.. Sometimes you have to ride the down deeper so you can bounce back up higher than you were before. Its like trying to stop a car comin at you going down hill. Sure you may be able to slow it down but it'll be tough to stop it. The goodnews is, you've felt a desire to seek out "help" so you're probably on your way back up to the top.

As for "out of shape" - if it doesn't bother you, it won't bother the girls. I put on 30 pounds on purpose as a experiment to see if it would effect my success with women. It didn't one bit, because my confidence is my greatest asset.

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Also, if you're out of shape from sitting around all day, you can do some barbell exercises. I've been lifting for the last 2 months, and it feels great. Squat every other day. Start light, and add 5 lbs to the bar every day. Squat every other day. You'll get tree trunks man. Squat to parallel too.

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Damn man, that last line was beautiful.

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Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

You're already one step ahead by realizing how miserable you're feeling sitting down doing nothing, CHANGE THAT NOW.

Say "Yes" to every single person who asks to hang out and you'll be on track in no time.