Ok im getting pretty damn good at this now. But it always comes down to this sticking point in my long term game.

Sure i can close, but isnt taking it further just as important? I want to be able to lock myself into a decent relationship when im able and willing to.

So this leads me to my sticking point.

Attraction - Awesome - I can build a strong attraction with 85% of the girls i meet.

But when it comes down to comfort, its almost as if im slipping out of the attraction and into the Lets Just Be Friends zone.

So what would cause the attraction ive built to die down and for girls to loose their interest in me? How do i present myself as 'boyfriend material' rather than another friend?

What i guess im trying to solve is how do i consistantly demonstrate that i am boyfriend material and am interested in her?

I think its best i sort this out now and open a whole new door in my game rather than let it build and become a major issue that affects my other game and is harder to correct later on.

- Many thanks for any help!

What generally happens on your day two's?

Do you set up the day twos? Do you make it on your terms? Whats your phone game like? You are asking a pretty broad question without giving any examples of how you end up in the LJBFZ. When I have ended up in the LJBFZ its because i became predictable. The HB's could see my next move coming.

Whats seperates you from being like every other AFC out there?

Yeah i think that applies to me. How did you overcome the issue of becoming predictable?

Besides that im working out a decent day two plan now, problem is theres so little to do thats exciting in this city. Got a date on monday, i really dont want to lose this one!

Cheers for the help!

Man, I'm having the EXACT opposite problem. Every girl I meet wants to be my girlfriend, when I just got away from that and it's the furthest thing in my mind. Just want to close without the commitment for now, but having trouble since girls typically want some form of commitment from me.

Maybe we should exchange our approaches, techniques, etc and see the underlying issues here.

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