This is probably an overdone question but anyway... I get a lot of numbers from women i don't know from bars and whatever else and it is easy to flirt after I get the number because there are no real reprocussions because if I screw up she doesn't reply and it's onto the next one. Last night I tagged along with a female friend I used to sleep with to a birthday party where I knew no one else, she introduced me to one of her friends, who was quite cute, and we chatted for about an hour. Not a really flirty chat but quite sort of intimate you might say, talking about life in general and all that. She was quite touchy but that very well could've been part of her personality.

I got her number but I'm stuck on how to proceed. I feel that if I don't up the anty on the flirting ill get friend zoned and yet since the context of our conversation was not particularly flirty I feel it would be weird to come out of no where and flirt quite strongly and given that his is kind of a member of my outer circle I feel that I don't want to come of weird or too strongly. Did I completely shoot myself in th foot by not flirting early? How do you guys proceed with numbers you've gotten through mutual friends? Am I being an idiot, should I just be treating this girl the same as any random?

Thanks for your input.

For the record, I don't think there's anything wrong with hitting up a friend of a friend. The only sensitivity I would consider is to not explicitly rub in the face of your former fuck buddy that you are now banging her friend. Not only might she get jealous (even if she isn't even into you anymore), she might do some girl magic and cockblock you by telling her friend (your new customer) things to make her want to avoid you. I'm confused: did you say you got the number from her yourself, or through your friend? I don't think this really matters though, other than the fact that she might admire the former more. Anyway, since so far the conversation you've had with her hasn't been flirty, I would suggest starting off your conversation with something to immediately give her the vibe that you are no friendzone material. I don't think it's too late at this point. I think it's only too late if you fail to flirt too soon. Then she will almost certainly send you off to LJBF land. Good luck mate...

Appreciate the advice. I definitely got the number myself it seemed fairly natural. There's no worry of the first girl being jealous, in fact she was encouraging me to go for it. My concern is more tha, while usually I have no fear of fucking things up with women because they are generally complete strangers, I guess I'm more worried about saying the wrong thing in this instance because it could come back down the line to me.

I agree with coolguy2013. Nothing wrong with hooking up with friends of friends, or friends of ex-fuck buddies. Just be cautious. Never talk bad about your ex's - ever *TIP FOR EVERYONE* Just mention things like "Yea, she was cool, it just never worked out" and leave it at that. Then if they talk bad about you, it makes them look like a bitch and DHV's you.

Secondly, if you spoke for an hour, did 0 kino and didn't hardly flirt; you might already be friendzoned, depending upon how she reacted during the #close. The nice and lucky thing for you, is she was doing the kino work for you, so you still might have some sort of chance. I would just do normal game on her; as long as you don't act like a damn creep, how can she think you are creepy?

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