So long story short. Pickedup a girl 2 weeks ago, slept with her 3 times since then. Once last week after going home from club and twice this week. Again once after a night out together and the day after. The thing is i was allways the one who initiated the convo. However she allways complied and agreed on any plans i made. Last time when i left her place intexted her a bit after i had a good time. On which she replied she really had a great time. I mean she allways shows a lot of interest and seems to be into me i just dont understand why she doesnt initiate the convo or make some suggrstions to meet up? Whats your take on it? Could this mean lacl og intetest or am i overthinking it?

How should i play it? Im not sure what i want from her but i do know i would like to get to know her better, because from what i saw she seems like a cool person.

1) Maybe she has a lot of cocks around her, so when you initiate the convo, she actually remembers you and because she actually genuinely enjoys your company, she starts to focus on you.
2) Maybe she is just busy and doesn't have the time to be the convo initiator, but once you get the ball rollin', she makes time for you since she wants to.
3) Maybe she is just shy and/or not really a texter/phone person. Some people are that way.

tnx for the input man. you opened my eyes a bit, I haven't considered all the options, but you're right, it's probably one of those three. But if it's the 1st option in this case, is it ok to keep initiating convo or does this present me as just another cock?

I have no idea how to play this. I haven't texted for 3 days, kind of hoped she would but now I'm not so sure. It's really confusing, because we always ended on a high note and it seemed genuine. I'm thinking about asking her out for drinks or something, because usually we just hung out at her place. What would you do? I would like to know what's the situation here.

regards,
nevver

The ones mentioned before are great ones. Now I would suggest you something, make her invest on you, emotionally, physically, in timing, in any way you can. Since attraction is not enough because as mentioned, she could have a lot of cocks going around, you need to be that different one. Plus, give her something to remind you, to be thinking on, like for instance, a few days ago I told a girl "Listen to me. "You're pretty much the best girl i've met in a while.. (3 seconds pause while looking in the eye, while she was quiet), but i've just been with you in the good ones, I don't know how will it be with you in the tough ones, but that's what will count". She really went thinking about this all weekend, I told her a Friday, she even called me on Saturday to asked why I was talking about. And I didn't tell her, she liked, she was wasting lot of energy to it.

Just be smart, and be always observing the context, to see where you're standing. Luck.

Tnx man. Appreciate that you took the time to answer. I think you're right I have to make her to invest. Although last week I was already out and I texted her to ask what she was up to, and said she's just planning to chill at home tonight. I busted her on that a bit, and then told her to join me out, which she did. The next day she told me, she has no idea how I managed to convince her to come outside, because she was already in bed by the time I initiated convo.

I don't know if I should be the one to initiate again. But on the other side, I think if I don't do it she won't do it either. I could be wrong though. Is it a good idea to freezout until she contacts (if she even will) ? Or should I be the one to initiate once again? I'm probably going out tomorrow and last week when we talked she said she's probably going too. Till now I always contacted her while I was out, but I was thinking of not doing it this time, to show I have other options too and that she's not the only girl.

what's your opinion?

I think a freezeout would be perfect for this time. I've had situations where girls say that they don't talk first because the guy should be the one doing the work, that was before, when I was beginning, now they do. So, I would say the freezeout it's perfect, if she doesn't I would do it, but days later, plus, I would tease her, neg her, act as if she's just boring to me now, like if I had another one, and she would have to really focus on my to get me. Agree? Good luck.

i've been in no contact for 4 days now. For how long is it good to freezout? Should i never contact or should i wait one more week and try one more time or should i just let it go and she might pop up eventually? I live in a relatively small city, so it's pretty sure i will bump into her some day.

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