Hey guys here's what's up I posted about this girl earlier and how I had weak initial txt game. So I've been trying to dhv just by being myself telling her about places I've traveled usually at the drop of a hat. And showing pics to back it up, but I think I may have over done it or is it just a sh-t test? After I sent her a pic of the sunset over the ocean in fla. Me: if you could travel anywhere in the world where would you go? Her: how do you get to go on all of these spur of the moment trips? Me: well in all fairness I got paid for the trip to western canada so I guess it doesn't count lol, but I just like the adventure of doing things spur of the moment without any plans that could go wrong as well I enjoy traveling. Her: lol nice. Me: so if you could go on a dream vacation anywhere in the world where would you go? Her: greece. Me: nice I'd like to see the ruins someday. Why greece? Her:because I grew up reading greek myths and I have a greek tattoo on my back.

Now keep in mind I this girl isn't a real conversationalist at the best of times, but I'm getting her to open up, but I need some help!! Any advice is appreciated!! Thanks!

Are you seeing this girl for a while? Personally, I would call her at this point and after some playful banter arrange the meeting.

As for the text game, you finally pulled out some info out of her. I would play around with it at this point. "Greek tattoo? I bet it's Disney Hercules. Awesome, wouldn't expect anything less!"

You did the right move by asking her an interesting question, but stay away from dry, factual texts.

Al

Why are you even texting her that much? Just ask her out and let her open up face-to-face.

I haven't been texting her as much as I made I made it look like. We just had an interesting convo going so I went with it for a while, but I too got the feeling that I'm making myself a little too available.

How it ended was she said about her tat and the books she likes to read. I have read a few too so I was gonna start a convo about that because I enjoy talking to her, but I caught myself and got my head back about me. Plus I got called back to work so I couldn't reply.

Thanks mate! Here's an update. Before I could be playful or neg her on her tat she told me it was an owl. (Owl of Athena) I thought that was interesting, and was gonna get into a convo about that, but I caught myself got my head back about me before I came off as too available. plus I got called back into work so I couldn't reply.

I have to work today and don't really have time to talk to her so I figure I'll leave it for today then tmrw have some playful banter then set up a date.

What do you think mate?

Sounds like a plan. Definitely let some tension build up. That "oh crap! am I losing him" feeling makes her think about you more.

Keep us posted!
Al

Cool will do!! I was gonna send her something kinda playful what I had in mind was "owl of athena?? You must be an extremely wise young lady " then just see where it goes from there, But I'm open to suggestions if you or anyone else have any ideas throw them out. Definitely gonna let it sit for today and talk to her probably tmrw evening.

Here's an update I getting her to open up a fair bit more.

Me: owl of Athena?? you must be a wise young lady do you have any other tats?

Her: I love greek mythology!! Yes two others.

Me: bit about greek mythology. What other tats do you have?

Her: two kanji's long text describing them.

Now I'm back at work and don't have time to talk to her right now. So I'll leave it till tonight then carry on send her a pic of my next tat ask for a pic of her owl tat. Which could open the door for some pretty solid escalation.
I didn't talk to her at all yesterday, and today she's responding immediately. So maybe my txt game isn't that bad after all lol.

you arrange a date yet?

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Here's an update for anyone that may be interested lol.

After some playful banter I got her to send me a pic of her tat. Convo was going well, but I was running out of things to talk about. So here's what I said

Her: tells me the meaning of part of her tat

Me: nice. That is really well done!

Me: I gotta run, but how about you and I grab a drink say this thursday night around 8:30-9 at such and such place? (classy place solid date location)

That's the 1st time I've used that direct approach so any feedback advice what not is appreciated
Thanks!!

Her answer: Sure.... Sounds good!!

Congrats! You are doing pretty good

If you are running out of things to say - banter. Doesn't have to be anything deep or meaningful or profound. Play around with words - play with double meanings and have fun!

Al

Thanks mate. I'm better in person then I am over the phone. Only thing is now that I have the date locked down what's a good follow up txt? Usually I don't set up dates this far in advance, but in this case I felt I was running out of time and needed to act before she possibly lost interest. Usually I set a date up the day before or one day in advance and don't talk until then, but with 2 days un between I feel likt that maybe too much time to not talk to her. What I'm thinking is tonight just a simple txt

Me: cool see you then!
How was your day anything exciting happen?

This is a definite weak spot in my game so any advice is appreciated
Thanks!!

2 days is nothing. Text the day of seeing if the time still works for her or tell her you may run a little late (by like 15 minutes). That is what I do generally.

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Cool mate I'll do that. Follow up texting like I said isn't a real strong point for me.

Another thing I wanna run by you guys is at the current moment I'm living at home I know its a dlv and the obvious solution is move out and get my own place, but here's the story my parents own 2 properties I lived in their other house and had a nice set up sunroom patio what not. Anyway I was gonna do some traveling and be gone for a while so they rented the place out, and due to other shit I ended up not traveling. The renter has a about 3 months left then I can get my place back. Now my current situation even though living at home is a dlv is not that bad I have a hot tub pool patio. And an all around nice place, so at least I have that going for me. I've had girls ask me if I live at home before I tell them the story its never been a problem, because well shit happens to the best of us and at least I'm doing something about it. I know guys that have smokin hot gf's and are making no effort to move out of their parents basement. So I don't think my situation should make me look like a loser.

Any thoughts advice on how to approach this if its brought up is appreciated thanks!!