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| kraken88 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:02 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 31, 2013 1:57 am Posts: 5 | | Hey der,
Indian guy here settled in the US. I have watched couple of gabmler's videos about escalation and a bit of stuff from simple pick up. Read the GAMe. Just don't know where to start from basics. Some starting up material or videos? Thanks
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| RiRi | PostPosted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:45 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Feb 05, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 261 | | There are millions of videos on youtube and a ton of information on this site and others.
And then its a continual process of read/watch + apply, read/watch + apply.
Applying your skills, even if you think you aren't ready, is the most valuable thing you can do. Real world action destroys any knowledge you get from reading/watching.
Focus your energy on interacting with people. The more you're comfortable interacting with people, the more comfortable you'll be in social settings and/or date settings. Its simple, if you lived with dogs your entire life, you'll see a dog in somebodys house and go hang out with it and be completely comfortable doing so. If you didnt, you may come across a bit scared or unsure of how to interact with the puppy. Its all about being familiar with what you're working with.
Personally, most of my friends are women. I tend to get treated like a gay dude ("Hey can you grab tampons for me?") by my closest friends, but its always great practice when interacting with girls outside my circle. I treat them almost as if I treat my good female friends, and it works. I seem comfortable and not trying to go outside my personality with her.
So how will you approach this? You can say fuck it and start going to the mall/social settings to just gain as much experience as possible. Or you can take the route I took and start hanging with girls more (regardless of being friendzoned). People see being friendzoned as completely negative, but I don't. Girls that friendzone you could be awesome people...and could have amazingly hot friends.
Either way, start working on being comfortable around women, girls detect that quicker than anything.
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| kraken88 | PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 8:45 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 31, 2013 1:57 am Posts: 5 | | Hi,
Thanks for the advice. Well Today i went and just approached some girls. Let them know they are attractive and m interested in them. it was pretty good but could not sustain a conversation as such, i can talk a lot but don't want to bore them either. Will check out the Material. Thanks a ton!
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