Here goes the short version. Got number of this HB on some chat couple months ago. She is ridic hot (prob 9 or 10 if pics dont lie), but she is also 18, immature and bitchy at times (comes hand to hand with immature i guess).

So we texted for quite a while (big mistake yeah), no sexual escalation of any kind, and tried to meet couple of times but that failed for various reasons, some of them being that she is derailing convo in some other direction. So, couple weeks ago I got sick of her when someone got her mad and suddenly all men became idiots so she just became annoying and rude so I quit texting her.
Ten days later she contacts me with "so you wouldn't even text any more?" so after a short chat I decided to mess around and set up a date in a bossy way, which she (surprise!) considered rude and of course declined. So, today I apologized for being rude and asked her out again (for next week) in proper polite fashion at which she responded:
"Nice of you to figure out that you overreacted. We would go out that time if you weren't so rude...but ok, we will go out sometimes"

Now let me just get this clear. I am huge AFC (as you noticed) and I wouldn't even bother with this girl, but I find the way she is busting my balls and putting up obstacles very amusing and great exercise for me to overcome.

So my question is...what next? Can i get the ball back in my yard? I def won't bother contacting her any more unless I set a date for a next week.

Get some standards, this girl has an awful personality that you shouldn't even have to put up with.

Play big brother or the daddy role.
view the annoying or outrageous things she does as a child having fun, you'll notice the power struggle quickly waver to your side. But if you don't know how to maintain it you'll lose it and her quickly. Work on your inner game and make sure that doesn't happen.

Girls generally prefer it if you are slightly bossy in setting up the date... she probably has a guy already. I'd say let it sit for at least a month and don't bother with texting.