just looking for a good way to condition a girl or other ppl to invite you to parties. Thx

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I get invited to birthday parties, baptismals, weddings, pool parties, discos and so on at least once a week. Most of the time, even when a girl's birthday is several months down the line, I already get invited in advance just to make sure that I'll be there.

I think the key here is that you project a vibe that makes a lot of people feel good and when conversations go down into depressing topics, you should immediately eject. This conditions a lot of girls minds that you're a fun guy. So when girls want fun, they invite you.

In contrast, when girls have problems and want sympathy, they turn to their AFC orbiters.

Never give sympathy nor listen to girlie sob stories BUT make sure that you're always near to dish out fun or seen in fun places and be very sexual.

Condition girls that you're a fun and sexual guy and the entire dynamic changes.

How?

Through a combined classical Pavlovian conditioning and operant Skinnerian conditioning. Look it up and dig deep.

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Get on the girl's good side and if you're cool with them then they may invite you to parties that they were invited to since girls always get a shitload of them

Alright so lets say a girl is dishing out drama to me after we've started talking for a bit, for example:
"I just got hit by a drunk driver last night "
"I dont get why he left me "
"My parents hate me "

what's your move? just look at her and say "so anyways..."; then start talking about something else that's fun?
Just trying to get a better handle on this. Thanks!

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Take your cellphone out. Say, "Excuse me for a sec. I have to make a call." or "Wait. I need to take a pee." When you come back 3 or 5 minutes later, change to a fun topic.

I used to give sympathy and sexually escalate on girls dishing out sob stories and f-closed some. However, the massive amounts of drama they create down the line is not worth the pussy. They also tend to contact you only when they have a sob story.

The reverse is true though. When you're a fun and sexual guy, girls want to hangout with you for fun and sex (and parties).

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First of all. You are not conditioning anybody. Girls are human beings not some kind of drones that need programming in order to achieve what you want.

My advice is be genuine and have fun and just talk to people. Have hobbies where you meet people and enjoy spending time with them. If they get to know you better and like you they will start hanging out with you more.

Alright so lets say a girl is dishing out drama to me after we've started talking for a bit, for example:
"I just got hit by a drunk driver last night "
"I dont get why he left me "
"My parents hate me "

This is not dishing out drama. She tells you what happened to her or how she feels. Best thing to do is just listen then cheer her up. If you just leave her or pretend not to listen you will act like an asshole.

If your parents did not use any Pavlovian or Skinnerian conditioning on you since you were a baby, you would be pooping all over the place like a wild animal. Wild animals, most food varieties and non-pet species that were not conditioned by humans poop everywhere. Many human beings take their shit in the toilet courtesy of conditioning. Without conditioning, there is no civilization.

So you think brushing your teeth after every meal isn't conditioning? So you think gorillas who don't brush their teeth since they were not conditioned to do so are better off than humans who brush their teeth everyday?

Classical and operant conditioning are all over the place in human society from flicking the light switch on to ordering beer and pizza on football night, from working 9 to 5 to squeezing kechup on your hamburger, and so on and so forth.

Most human day-to-day routines are products of conditioning. See that traffic light? When it says stop, you should better stop or pay the fine that will punch a hole in your wallet. Do you take showers everyday? Well and good. Welcome to the human race.

Is it morally wrong or being an asshole if you conditioned girls' minds that you're a fun and sexual guy versus some dude who dishes out depressing stories every now and then, sucks the life out and fun from his social circle, and whines every moment he sees other people?

When a girl dishes out sob stories on you, you're better off discouraging that sort of behavior. Encourage her, however, to dish those out to her girlie friends or AFC orbiters.

Make fun and sexual your brand identity and you'll be selling yourself like hotcakes to a lot women out there who interact with the usual boring, depressive guy.

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