Im starting to notice a pattern and wonder if that's true. I get the impression some, if not all girls prefer a guy who took them kayaking through rapids over a guy who bought them to a fancy restaraunt for dinner (They'd obviously want to a marry a guy who did both) The exciting guy could be a total d*ckhead but give her a time to remember and the nice guy would most likely end up in the friendzone or having a platonic relationship with her. Do they seem to prefer an average looking guy with tonnes of social proof and energy over a handsome guy with little social proof and seems a little too soft/polite?

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

As asaf avidan said, "...think of the stories we could have told". I think you're spot on. I just started talking to a girl who told me how bored she was with her last relationship, who she basically only sat around home with and didn't go out to many places or do very much in general when in this relationship. Having said that, going out and doing things shouldn't just be for a woman. We should be doing stuff because Its part of our lifestyle, which we are giving women the opportunity to be a part of. Doesn't have to be something every day, or every week. Even once a couple weeks, or once a month adds up to a very colourful and interesting life.

Hmm, I would generally agree, but I would swap "exciting" for "interesting".

I'm not an outdoors extreme sport type. I don't want to go white water rafting or jump out of planes. It doesn't interest me in the slightest. So why should I do crap like that to impress a girl? I shouldn't.

What's important is that you're not boring. You're not sitting at home, giving her the same experiences day after day after day. You're giving her new experiences. "Excitement" can be different for everyone, and often you don't even need to "excite" a girl to get her good feelings flowing.

If you're into extreme sports, then taking her skydiving and whte water rafting can be fun. But even this can become boring. If you got into a routine of doing the same thing, at the same time, on the same day of the week, then regardless of what it was, she'd probably get bored.

Alternatively, if you're giving her new experiences, then she's going to stay interested. What those experiences are should really be in line with your interests (and hers if they're similar to yours, but don't go out of your way to try new things just to impress a particular girl - it's far better to attract girls to what you already like than it is to change what you like to attract girls).

So if you're into high culture and art, taking her to a new art gallery with a never seen before exhibition might get her juices flowing just as much as another girl might love white water rafting. If you're into food, taking her to some quirky little restaurant serving some strange foreign food you've both never had before will have the same effect. Even very small things like spending a Sunday afternoon somewhere that you'd never normally think about going is interesting. Or taking her to see some new indie band and getting VIP tickets or something.

Interesting and exciting are almost the same thing, but you don't need to be doing extreme adrenaline-pumping things to get a girl. Just make sure you keep surprising her, keep some mystery, keep trying new things.

Ah ha, your question in line with my taste, if a man ask for your interesting I could kiss you do? Not as a direct kissing come readily!

Nice and interesting/exciting personalities are not mutually exclusive.

You might also want to put into consideration what she is into. If the girl is an adrenaline pumped person than taking her to that new art museum may not be the smartest move. Personally i would not enjoy it. I do also understand the fact that NO ONE should be picking activities completely off what the girl wanted.

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Guys are very logical, so it makes sense why a "nice guy" would be better
but woman are emotional, they want guys to make them feel all sorts of
emotions even if they are bad. A nice guy produces certain emotions
happiness, romance & boredom. On the other hand an exciting guy can
produce emotions of..excitement,fear,jealousy,sadness,lust,aggression,
annoyance,happiness, and romance with the exception of boredom. Ask
yourself what kind of person would I like as my bestfriend..some dude I
can play video games or some dude who is always into something exciting
and inviting me to tag along...same thing.

Is this a fuckin joke?! Of course girls want exciting guys, Im an exciting guy and have no issues getting women. Am I the best looking, ritchest, with the most social proof? Nope. But i have an awesome vibe and people, especailly women, love to hang out with me.
You dont have to go white water rafting, but jeeze live a little. most recent example, took my newest interest HB9 bar hopping to a bunch of places she had never been and all we did was chat, make fun of the place we were at and have a drink or two. She was very excited and I closed her that night. High value guys are exciting!

@HugoMoreno Hmm, that could explain why my ex keeps on trying to be friends with me again, we put each other through every emotion imagineable, awesome, happy, comforting, revenge, contempt, disgust, rage and betrayal. You just cracked a mystery for me sir, thank you for that She had a boring BF before who treated her better yet she wants nothing more to do with him lol, women are funny creatures

@Bezy I aint joking man. thanks for your post, sounds like you are the type of guy who gets a lot of action. It's hard to live at all in a town that was once ranked #2 for the worst towns for suicide but luckily for me i'm moving to the city very-very soon where ease of access to my favorite clubs will always be available. I used to be the type who'd go out solely to try to get laid, i'd always end up getting a "big zero" night until a PUA told me to 'have fun' instead of 'get laid' I seem to talk to girls way easier when there's 0 pressure, because I know it's fun to flirt with them

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

This.

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