Not a completely useless case here. In fact, when given any opportunity, I will flirt with the best of them.

I just want to learn new skills as my 'style' demands that I work my way into someone over a few encounters (seeing someone at a same/similar place a few times before making a bigger move). Not that I need the time to build up courage. Simply that seems to work best for me.

Sometimes it requires that I sense a woman 'wants' to talk to me. Then I get into my zone and work. At that point, I don't care as much if I make headway or not - which kinda defeats the purpose. I want to work smarter, not harder.

Very interesting stuff here. Great advice.

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WGY

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"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

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