Whats up guys.

Long story short: girl has been in an on-off relationship with a guy for three years. Drunk one night she tells me she's into me. They break up a week later, which apparently was a long time coming. We get coffee, it goes well. Then we went on a series of date-like things that all go fairly well. She says a bunch of things like "ive never liked someone this much before so soon after meeting them
" We have a chance to have sex drunkenly, she tells me she wants to wait until were sober so it means something. We do, the next day. Twice.

All of this is great, except I am way too into this girl and it's starting to show. Im typically super outgoing and sociable and I'm starting to catch myself being reserved and almost awkward around her. Im thinking through the things that I say and im saying stupid shit. I pay for her meals 90% of the time. I kiss her like were dating. I think she's starting to get weirded out by it and is getting distant.

How do I stop being such a fuck? I need to care way less about this than I do, but I think about her all the time and the more I fuck up the worse it gets.

Edit: this is the wrong place for this. My bad.

That's that bitch called love, take a step back and look at it from someone else's point of view, are you being needy? Clingy? What are her reactions?

Try and let her text you first etc but try not to show a massive lack of interest its a balancing act, to intense she will think your clingy, not enough and she will think you don't like her/just turn into friends

Back off a little and cut the rope. She'll come back to set a date, agree and go out with her.
Be the first to stop the kiss.
Paying isn't a problem, but if she insists to pay, let her do that.
Don't bring up any relationship talk and don't tell her that you love her.

That's all to be honest.
And calm down when you are around her, let her do most of the talk.

I have that manic energy too. Take up a hobby. Maybe go to the gym and start lifting weights. So long as you're doing something to distract yourself from your feelings then you're doing ok. If all else fails, drink and smoke weed.

As far as everyday game goes:
-Start making her pay for you. If you want her to love you then just treat her like an equal.
-Don't text her for about week. You've set up what's called the BANG BANG DEAD strategy.
http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/becom ... rview.html

-Start flirting with other girls

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Holy shit man, that link is the best text game guide I've ever seen. I've already got some responses from flaky girls.