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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:46 pm 
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Two girls have told they like me but as a friend. Any good comebacks when a girl says: "lets just be friends"?
Oh, also when a girl says: "I like older man"...since I look kinda young.
and last one when a girl says:"I dont like guys with earrings"

thank you very much for your input =]


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 11:08 pm 
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Here's a comeback:

With a sly smile say, "Why are you being picky? I'm not."


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'I've got plenty of friends' and walk away.

Seriously, don't become 'friends' with women you tried to game. It never works out well in the long run.


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I can´t promise anything like that. I can just promise that we won´t do anything that we do not both want.

BTW I love the esperanto one!

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Here's a comeback:

With a sly smile say, "Why are you being picky? I'm not."
Haha, golden man.


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Nice Ross Jeffries, man.


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lol i dont know what ross jefferies has to do with anything,
buuut it depends how you want to handle the situation. clearly you are not being ALPHA enough with those girls, but we'll deal with that later. actually scratch that, we'll deal with it now. I'm not going to give you any comebacks, those girls are lost, so instead lets work on not allowing ourselves to get in that position.
When a girl says "LJBF" it means she feels you're attraction towards her but doesnt feel any towards you, when in actuallity, it should, at least in appearence, be the opposite. Women of quality get hit on 24/7, they expect it from you. The qualities the men that she talks to that DONT end up with the LJBF convo posses are things like ALPHA-MALEness and dissintrest. because they dont find her desirable, even tho every other guy does, makes HIM desirable. In essence, she WANTS him to desire her, so she starts chasing him. On this forum you will find many threads teaching ALPHA and AMOG qualities, use the search, find them, learn them, be them. Showing dissintrest is part of standard MM game, which takes practice and research to learn, and is more then i can teach in one post.
but i wish you luck in your quest!

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[quote]I can´t promise anything like that. I can just promise that we won´t do anything that we do not both want.[quote]

I was just saying that this sounded like something that I heard Ross Jefferies saying to counter LJBF.


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'I've got plenty of friends' and walk away.

Seriously, don't become 'friends' with women you tried to game. It never works out well in the long run.
This is a little off topic but holy shit man. First off, "I've got plenty of friends" and walking away... is some serious bitch shit. I'd expect it in a crappy chick flick, but not out of a pua's mouth.

And secondly, what's wrong with having friends that are girls? Use them as pawns, wing women, or get this... friends. Yes. I said it. A friend with a vagina. Since a girl won't sleep with you you're not even going to associate with her? That's fucked. And if you make repeated unwelcomed advances and make things uncomfortable for the 2 of you to be around each other... you don't know what you're doing.

Don't give advice here, you're a jack ass.

I would smile a little and say "alright" and when she asks why you're smiling say "I was thinking the same thing but I didn't wanna pull out the "ljbf card" on you, cuz I don't like putting people in boxes like that. Not that we could never work out... but I'm not really looking for anything serious right now"

(The box thing gets credit from a mpua, I forget who)

You might get a fwb. :) Good luck.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:32 am 
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I would smile a little and say "alright" and when she asks why you're smiling say "I was thinking the same thing but I didn't wanna pull out the "ljbf card" on you, cuz I don't like putting people in boxes like that. Not that we could never work out... but I'm not really looking for anything serious right now"

(The box thing gets credit from a mpua, I forget who)
yeh that mPUA was Ross Jeffries and the full version of that line (part of which was mentioned earlier by Future) includes that 'box thing' in it..

i believe it goes something like: "I dont put friends in boxes like that.. all i can promise is that we'll do things together when we both feel ready, open and willing"

i personally dont think u should have friends ur attracted to in that sort of way though there is absolutely nothing wrong with having female friends im sure everyone here would agree with that.

however i do have certain female friends which i like to 'practice' routines on, though i tend not to lead them on too much as thats just cruel (if u dont want anything to happen between the two of you). and yeh as mentioned earlier u can just pivot them, take them out to the mall or something and sets will be so much easier to open.

but yeh dw about it man i personally find it a lot easier to just move on to the next girl instead of wasting ur time trying to salvage this one. besides after a while she'll start to notice ur recent success and the fact that ur not being needy and she'll start to get curious.

oh and a good response to the age-difference thing:
"It is not a question of the differences in our ages, as it is a question of whether or not you are mature enough to become involved with me."
and watch her qualify away.. :wink:

a response to "i dont like guys with earrings":
"well i guess that works out well then because i cant stand girls who are fussy.."

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 4:41 pm 
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I agree, once you get to that point where a girl says "LJBF," its almost definitely too late. You need to be an alpha male and create intrigue from the first second you meet her.

All of these comeback lines are fine, but one alpha male comeback line will not make up for all of those mistakes leading up to that point, where you failed to intrigue her.

Of course its good to have women friends so I would never just blow her off. Instead, use her to meet HER friends, or as a wing. But don't even bother with her anymore on a romantic level, just find another woman to start fresh with.


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Iman, the "I like older men" comment is bullshit but it has gotten to your head already ("since i look kinda young"). “I don’t like guys with earrings” it’s the same shit, it’s a test. Never go against your own thing, remain as you are. If you like earrings wear them, if she doesn’t like them she can fuck off.

You’ve probably done something that turned her off beforehand and she feels as though you’re better off being just her “friend”.

PrettyBoy41: I don’t think it’s disinterest they want. She wants you to want her just like you want her to want you. It’s the options that are the killer. If she sees that you’re not too attached or intimidated she’ll know that you’re aware of the fact that there’s a ton of good looking pussy swimming around just dying to get fucked. You have choice and options; she’s not on a pedestal anymore.

And this whole thing: what’s wrong with having girl-friends, use them as pawns, wing women etc. If they agree to help you with that (I’m against manipulating them into it), most of the time you’ll find they get turned on and will try to get a piece of you.

Usually when a girl wants to “just be friends”, she wants to keep you on bookshelf and use you when she’s bored. http://www.onlinedatingreviewsnow.com/c ... why-bother a good little article on this topic; there’s a detailed LJBF counter response.

The term friend is thrown around so loosely that is has lost all meaning. There’s a good chance she won’t be there for you when you need her. I don’t know about the rest of you but I’d rather have 1 great friend, than 100 shitty ones.

As far as the: it’s too late once you hear the LJBF, you can always turn a situation around. Most of the time the answer is right in front of you but you’re too blind to see it.

Heartbeat’s reply isn’t that bad at all. If you’re sexually attracted to this chick, why would you put yourself through the torture? You want to bang her, she knows you want to bang her but you’re playing by her rules. She’s leading the relationship.

You could add “I’ve got plenty of friends, I want a companion” or “…I want a lover/I want someone to fuck” etc.


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I'd go with

(With sudden relief)

"I am SO glad you said that! I've always thought you'd make a great friend, in fact and this will make you laugh I was kinda worried that you were looking for something more.."

"That is SUCH a relief, because there is this cute little redhead at work who've I kinda got this thing going with. Seriously you should see her, she is SO cute (if the LJBF girl has a slightly big ass) and has the teeniest little apple butt. I was keeping her at arms length but I guess I might let her get a lil bit closer....."

Smile enthusiastically throughout


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