Hi guys,
I'm an rAFC who has greatly improved his game lately! I have a feeling that the community is one of the best tools to understand not only the world that surrounds us, but also ourselves.

By reading many articles, posts, books and putting them gradually into practice. I've gained better self esteem, confidence, social skills and I have enhanced the way I express my personality.
I've also greatly improved my looks.

To the point where I am actually being approached!!!

It happens quite often to me but when it happens I either go all cold and turn the girl down (i kick myself so hard after! it's as if as soon as she approaches I lose all interest in her!) or I just don't know what to say and what frame I should be in.

Obviouslythis question is not strictly related to PU, but I haven't found any material on "being approached", so I wonder if anyone has some tips to share :)I'd be grateful.

"Hey. What movies do you like?"
"Do you watch Breaking Bad?"

Blah blah. Done, keep it going, kino escalate. She will invite YOU to kiss her. She'll throw IOIs like fuck me eyes, smile a lot talking to you and have an open posture directed at you. Generally you can tell if she's into you by the smile and eyes(Where are they focused on? Are they fuck me eyes?) and that's when you tease and get closer. Seduction mode.

Also, you will generally only ever get approached if you're sober. I usually get an approach or proximity with IOIs when i'm sober. This will happen at least once.

If a girl approaches you and you are attracted to them, don't piss fart around! Grab them and escalate instantly and aggressively.

Don't be afraid to fuck up, just go for it!

If she's throwing the interest at you, don't flake her off it's a bad fuck up.
She'll feel down. Persist during kissing and be the first to stop everything, but don't act cold and turn her down.
If she's interested, ANY topic would interest her.

Just tell her stories or something and escalate while you do that. She won't be hearing your stories, but she will be feeling your touches and she'll eventually get aroused.

Good luck

Thanks guys! I've tried thinking it out by myself (maybe creating sexual tensions through banter or something softcore anyway) but your tips are way better!

Dude! This is awesome! Its been awile since I have actually been in practice with the game! We should connect man. I am interested in seeing what you have learned! PM me bro!

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If she approaches, she wants your dick. Think of it that way. Kino!

NOT true. You CAN cause her to lose interest by boring her and making her say "I have to go use the restroom..." etc. I wouldn't dare you to start talking to any girl about when the first plane engine with the enclosed steel blades was invented or how concrete parking lot dividers/stoppers are made, etc.

...Unless you know how to passionately talk about those things in such a way that it turns them on.

This would be like telling a person to go to hell in such a nice way that they look forward to the trip.





Bottm line is:
You MUST be interesting, or at least more interesting than whatever she is doing at the moment.

HAHAHAHAHA this one made me laugh, but hey go for it.

What do you REALLY have to lose by going kino ASAP?

Theres more fish in the see.

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hey dude ive had this problem too....kinda phased me when chicks opened me....i had a chick come up and ask if i had a girlfriend and i said yes.....doh!....didnt now how to handle it...was a mistake she was actually really hot....best advice i could give you bro is...dont surcome to the added pressure...and don't be validated by the the compliment stay centered nd grounded...easy to say eh!....good luck man

Haha hey man I have had this happen to me before, I mean youd be out one day

and dont even expect it I can totally understand what you are talking about

and where you are coming from. Happens to the best of us.

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