am dating two girls, but now i am on the cuss of getting both of them my girlfriend. all i have to do is decide which one should i chose i would like to ask for advise for the wiser decision.


girl1. 5 years younger than me

is a hard working woman and has a clear mindset, her face is the most beautiful thing ive ever seen to my type at lease, although she is unemployed and still doing uni, she works hard taking care of herself, like going to the gym eating the right food etc.... physically she is hot but could still loose a few pounds.

she is kind though not very thoughtful and to escalate kino with her was the most difficult thing -_-"since she had a terrible experience with her ex, she is a bit twitchy when touched ( tho i got pass that already ).

we go out almost everyday and we share the same experience when we both lost our family and was left homeless, we stuck with each other at that time and never left each other, she wasn't mentally prepared so i had to be the man with the plan, and im happy that i was able to pave my way through that situation, not only did i got myself a job but also got ourselves a house, and i also got her mom to forgive her so she is back there now, though she hangs out with me at my place almost everyday.

we havent had sex yet, she is very sensitive to this though to where this is going i dont think it will take long, as she is already commfy with me.

and weve made it clear that we like each other. she said i would have to prove to her first that she can really trust me, which is understandable since she did have a bad experience with her ex.

she ist really thoughtful, and with her she said i have alot of competion but she can drop them for me, i dont really buy this because she still text them, she siad their just friends now, i dont really know. at the moment we havent seen each other for 5 days and she hasnt replied, for 2 days now, she said last time she dosent have a BF and will see through me first.


girl 2. 3 years younger than me


is also a hard working woman, though i dont know much about her weve only been seeing each other for over 1 week, and weve ony dated 2ce, she is a tons of FUN to be with, escalated kino with her in no time! she is very extraverted and has amazing listening skills, and is very interested in everything there is to do about me, i am also attracted to her both in her looks and attitude. physically she is absolutely HOT!!!

she is very spontaneous and just plain fun to be with. and just like the other woman she said that she likes me very much "in a way you already know". and i think so do i, i say think because of the rapid development with her.

she also has a very good job and supports herself. has a good family, she is also very thoughtful and brings me stuff that she observed that i like, she is just full of surprises. and i reward her for it.

the only downside isnt really a downside, its because at the moment she is quite mysterious. i like her because she is FUN, and very confident, very attractive person.






i cant decide because with girl 1. i have a very strong bond, history and compromise with, but is giving me shit at the moment.
and girl 2 i just meet about a week ago, and she is extremely fun to be around.
and the sex OMG......

You haven't fucked either one....for all we know #1has u friendzoned.

Nah if I understand correclty he already layed the second girl. I fully understand OP's problem because I have been in similar shoes.

On one hand you have a girl who is very close to you and you don't want to hurt her but is really problematic. And on the other hand you have another girl who is all over you but yet you don't care about her so much.

The bad news is that friendship is over with the first girl regardless of your choice. If you start her dating, then it's no longer friendship, if you start dating the other girl she will get hurt. I can tell she is a very sensitive girl, she won't tolerate this, even if she should have to.

You got yourself in this fucking awkward situation, so it's basically your fault. Now take the responsibility as a man, and don't ask us which girl to choose because we can not know your feelings, we can not really know these girls either.

If you want your life to be easier try with the second girl. But if you REALLY don't want to lose the first one then try with her. There's nothing more I can give you as advice given the situation is way too subjective for an outsider to judge.

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truzies, Girl 1 tho has me on a list of guys she want to be with, i forgot to mention this, but she said i was on top, which doesn't really soften the situation. im being stupid with girl 1. i think she is testing me but she cuddles to some random guy every time she gets drunk! which pisses me off, at this point ive already ditched her like a boss one night on a club . and got girl 3. though i dont know her much yet ive already got my lay on her that night. and we are now dating -_-" and girl no.2 she is still an option.

they dont know that they are being tested to whom i should decide.

girl 1 is just a very sad story. yes she is very sensitive for she has a terrible past from her ex BF. i just feel very protective towards her, now i dont mind her being my friend but i think you are right, i just ruined our friendship and i dont know how to fix it, thats my only problem with her now.