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PostPosted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:55 pm 
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What do you guys think about approaching a girl on the dance floor? Walking up and dancing with her like every other chump. (Assuming she digs you from her moves back) How would you run this game? Would you immediately move in for Comfort, or A3?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 10:03 pm 
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well I personally won't anymore. that might change...but for each person it is different.

Dancing will not automatically take you from a1 to c1. but it will give you a chance (possibly) to kino IN your A1.

dancing UP to someone is an approach.

going TO dance with someone can be A2-C1.


Its a non verbal approach. if she is into you and you two start dancing, try talking to her a bit. when the dance is over, roll off if her body language doesn't say "stick around."

if you do get the vibe she might be into you, stay and pick up in A2. If she is coming on strong, neg her for the dance moves, then go into a DHV story.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:32 am 
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That's how I always used to do it. If there was a dance floor, I'm money. If there is no floor, I was useless. Dancing is a DHV for me- it's something I'm really good at. I've been staying off the floor lately while I try to hone my pick up skills by talking to girls. When I move to comfort, she'll sometimes ask me to dance, and then it's a huge attraction boost when I dance better than anyone on the floor.

A lot of the concepts- frame control, for instance, are the same on the dance floor, even though you may never exchange words.


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Hmmm, Last time I tried isolating a girl after a dance floor, she said 'no' (in a more tactful way though.) So my first time was crash and burn, what would you guys normally say?
It was like 2 months ago, so I don't remember

I think I said "Lets go somewhere quieter"
She said "I'm fine here" (Or something like that)


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 4:51 am 
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Hmmm, Last time I tried isolating a girl after a dance floor, she said 'no' (in a more tactful way though.) So my first time was crash and burn, what would you guys normally say?
It was like 2 months ago, so I don't remember

I think I said "Lets go somewhere quieter"
She said "I'm fine here" (Or something like that)
I don't know that I would necessarily "isolate" her on the dance floor.. However, you could use the dance floor as an intermediate step between the set and isolation. I kind of like this idea because she is more likely to leave the set with you if it is to dance rather than to move to a different part of the club. Dance for a song, then lead her to the isolation location.


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