Hi guys,
i recently saw that, after i open a girl, and after #close, if i search her on facebook, and i see there is a guy who she seems to be a good friend, like thay are commentin on ech others pics, thay are joking togheter, thay hve nickneames... i instantly think that that guy is better,funnier,smarte than me... what should i do to build more confidence ?

and how to overpass the fear of silence at the first date ?

Firstly, stop looking girls up on Facebook. It's creepy as hell. If you ask for her number and she offers you Facebook, always refuse because this is a classic sign of an early LJBF or just a time-wasting friend-collector who wants to check how popular you are. If you gamed her correctly, SHE will be begging for YOUR number. Don't waste time with Facebook girls.

Secondly, accept the fact that every girl you sleep with has had bigger dicks, richer guys, more muscular guys, funnier guys, more talented guys than you before. She's bored of them now. What matters is here and now.

Thirdly, you need to discover what you want in life outside of pickup. You should have goals of what you want to achieve in life. If your only goal is to get a girlfriend, you will fail pretty quickly, because achieving your only goal of getting a girl will make you lose drive and ambition. You may get a girl, but then what? You need a plan in life.

Stop comparing yourself to other guys. I like to pretend that every guy in the room is richer, more popular, more muscular and has a bigger dick than me, even though it's not true. It's just a mindset which helps you to stop caring and stop giving a fuck about what other chodes are doing. As soon as you let on to the girl that other guys bother you, you look instantly beta and it makes the guy who bothers you look more alpha and powerful. Concentrate on what you're good at and stop caring.

i can't say in words how much i want to thanck you for your post. It really changed my point of view. Thx a lot

This post is influential indeed.

Always happy to help. Hope you find your way in life and wish you success with women.

Don't compare yourself to other guys. What counts is the present, not the past or the future.

well said. Here and now, nothing else matters.