Hey guys,

I've been having a problem with my interactions. I seem to do well as far as creating attraction and comfort, I'll use C&F sometimes, show high value, get enough IOI's and the girls invest in the conversation. I try to be natural and improvise as much as I can but I will use routines and some canned stuff I still remember. Things start to go wrong when I go for the kiss close, the girls seem to get nervous and try to kinda dodge the situation saying things like "but why are you only interested now?". They appear to avoid saying "no" but don't give the green light also.. Just thought as I write that waiting for the green light in a situation like this can be the very problem, right? But simply going for it won't work always, there's a gap in my game that I think results in transmitting nervousness to the girls.. BTW I do need to work on my kino escalation but it isn't that bad

The big doubt here is: what is missing?

Cheers!

When the girls question your sudden interest in them, it seems like a lack of a justified reason for your interest, which can be fixed through qualification.

About the nervousness, the only way to get rid of it is by getting used to the social situations, and that will naturally result from consistently practicing.

Hope that helps

You're right, simply going for it won't work always, but waiting for a green light may very likely be your very problem.

How to kiss close a girl is a mega topic, but here are a few quick points:

1. Women don't want to kiss you, they want you to kiss them. You have to have the social savvy to know when the time is right and to seize the opportunity. She won't give you a green light, but she may very well signal that she's lost attraction for you if you wait too long.

2. If you are wondering if the time is right to kiss her, it probably is. If you are looking at her, she's looking at you, the conversation has gotten very boring or you have both stopped talking and there is a sexual tension between you two instead of an uncomfortable silence, go for it. Believe me, you can juggle chain saws and, if a girl doesn't want to spend time with you she will get bored and leave. If you've been having fun with her, she is attracted to you, neither of you is even saying or doing anything and she's still looking in your eyes, she's just waiting for you to man up and kiss her.

3. "The flinch factor" -- If a girl doesn't welcome your advances, she will let you know by breaking state. If you stop talking and just look into her eyes, she will know that you are getting ready to kiss her. If she doesn't want you to, she will either start talking again or turn away to break the silence. If you lean in to kiss her and she doesn't want you to, she will turn her head to avoid the kiss -- no big deal.

One last quick piece of advice -- When in doubt, take the shot. She will more likely respect a man who tried to kiss her before she was ready than a pussy who missed his chance. And its a lot better to try, fail and scare her away than to play it safe and end up in the friend zone or perpetual dating zone.

Good luck!

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