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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 2:24 pm 
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Thanks for the advice. However her texting is really weird now. After the Day 2 which ended in a k-close, she doesn't text back quickly or a lot. 1 text a day, 1 day late. So far.

Our texting has gone like this after the day 2 (her texts before the Day 2 were always within 30-45 minutes).

After Day 2:

Me: I need a really good graphic designer for my next film poster. Do you know anyone? (She's a graphics designer, I'm a filmmaker)

Her: (1 day late) Hi sorry my phone yesterday was dead! Maybe I know one but I don't know if is really good!

Me: (2 hours later) OK I might give it a shot. Tell her I pay really well and I need her to bring her A-game. Do you think she can?

Her: (The next day at noon) Depends what you need exactly...What tips of poster you need? Give me more information!!! I think that I don't understand very well your last text :p

Me: (3 hours later) Haha A-game means to be at your best :) what have you been up to?

No response. Thinking of calling her tonight. Thoughts?


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 2:30 pm 
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Typical hard-to-get girl game.

If you want to play high stakes, a takeaway might work. Stay no contact for two weeks. If she initiates the conversation, go for the f-close.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 2:34 pm 
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Typical hard-to-get girl game.

If you want to play high stakes, a takeaway might work. Stay no contact for two weeks. If she initiates the conversation, go for the f-close.
That's what I was thinking, but a call might work too. See there's the thing, when the hell do you freezeout? My wing told me several times she'll text, and he was right. He also told me I should call her tonight if she doesn't respond. Because it will fizzle out if I go no contact at this point. When will she truly feel validation has been taken away from her? I feel like she's looking to see if I'm a player or not, to see if I am actually for real.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 2:42 pm 
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Call. When you hear her clear her throat a couple of times or more, she's nervous due to the sexual tension. When she plays hard-to-get again after your call, you'll have to try other ways or maybe shorten the NC period. I think she can't take the NC after 3 days and will initiate a call on her own.

A man's voice especially when yours is low makes women horny. I know, women I call on the phone tell me. Wink.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 5:56 pm 
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Just gave her a call and she picked up. She was shopping with a friend and the call lasted for around 6 minutes. She's still interested, she laughed a lot, however she had to go before I could make any plans, although she said "OK darling I have to go, but we can talk later" and said she "prefers text to calling because she can understand better" (she's Italian). Her "darling" was more of a belittling in a way, the exact same behavior as tapping me on my back. However her true indication of interest is that she picked up and that she took the time out of her day whilst with her friend.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 27, 2013 11:33 pm 
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So we texted back and forth and I asked her what she was doing Tuesday night and she gave a typical flake answer "got a freelance job, busy all week, bla bla..."

Deleted her number and going no contact. Lets see if she initiates again. If she does it's on. If not then next.

I can't text her because I don't have her number anymore so the ball is in her court.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 28, 2013 4:17 am 
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Hmm. I delete numbers a lot when I next hard-to-get girls. The problem is, when one or two try to reconnect, I'm not really sure who's texting or calling. I guess you'll figure out a way to fix this problem.

Sometimes, those probing questions to find out about a texter's or caller's identity can be messy.

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