This is a bread of woman I haven't had much of any experience with. My report logs the interactions I had with a particularly well ageing mother of two I met last night (I don't normally do mothers BTW). She's 35, looks about 27 and is a very classy successful banker. Not the type of woman I'd normally game due to the children and age. But I felt I needed to change things up last night after getting blown out on the only other sets I felt were worthy. I also decided I was going to stay sober.

So, I'm sitting at a table just off the dance floor against the stage. My back is to the crowed and I'm talking to a friend of mine. I particularly like this guy because he is literally friends with every girl in town. But he's always friendzoning himself, hardcore. It's really sad. Anyway. He's the only person in the bar dressed in his Halloween costume. As where chatting, just having a good time. These two women walk up. One happened to know my friend. Her friend knew of him but they weren't exactly friends. She engages me about someone dancing, looking silly. I start chatting her up as my friend engages his/her friend.

As this set started I actually wasn't gaming her in any way. I wasn't initially interested. (Like I said. Not my normal type.) But as we kept chatting. I started to realize how classy she was and different from most women I encounter at the bars here. I became intrigued. I really want to point this out. She and I started our interactions in a rather odd frame. One where I wasn't interested. She engaged me. I wasn't trying to build any attraction from her. So, that said. There wasn't any Kino. I wasn't injecting any sexuality. I was just being fun and interesting like I would be with a guy friend. But I did listen to her and I picked up on a lot of her values. Like I said. This girl was classy. She had pointed out a guy who was making his way though the bar chatting up various women. She said "guys like him were creeps and dogs". Guess she missed me getting blown out by those same girls. HAHAHA. She then pointed out a guy sitting at the bar. He was a pretty good looking guy. Had a nicely layered outfit with a classy peacoat on. He was very unapproachable though. And looked down right scary.

I'm going to go off on a tangent because this guy became a staple of the night as we people watched. He was the text book AFC guy you don't want to be in a bar. He was attractive, like I said. But he didn't smile at all. He had his head down but would scan the crowd, staring at people. This gave him the scrooge look. If you are going to be at a bar reading the crowd. Do it with some proper body language. Head up. Smile. Look happy and approachable. This guy was obviously not feeling confident and didn't make a single approach the entire night. He just walked around, and hovered, scanning the crowd.

Anyway. Because this guy had been caught staring at Classy MILF a few times. I suggested a mini date. But before I did that. I remember one of lines I uttered that seemed to really hook her. She said something to me about when she first saw me and noticed I was actually dressed fashionably unlike all the camo adorned "rednecks" who normally can be found out and about here in the south. I replied. "Oh? So was this about the point where you realized you were attracted to me?". I've never used that line and I'm pretty sure I read it on here. But damn did it make a huge difference in her body language. Up until that point she seemed interested but was very stand off'ish. When I saw this I then became a bit more physical with her. By touching her arm or knee here and there.

So... that instant date. I suggested we get out of there and head over to another club in town to escape the creepers. In the parking lot I said "let's just take one car. No point in both of us wasting out gas". She hesitated for a second and I chimed in "where are you parked?". So after piling into her car. We made our way. At the next club there was a cover. I was first in line and handed the door lady my money and ID. Said "one" to make sure I didn't have to pay her way in. Once inside her and her friend went to the restroom and I hit up the bar. At this point I figured I had a DD to take me home so I decided to drink. The girls found me in the crowd and we all grabbed a table. I decided since the friend was a third wheel I'd ignore my target a bit and engage her more. This worked to my advantage as Classy Milf started touching me more and trying to hold my attention more. We danced. She bought me a few more rounds and we shut the club down.

On our way back to grab my car. She stopped and dropped off her friend. As we were nearing the first bar where my car was parked I saw the Waffle House. I told her we should grab breakfast. Which we did, she even paid for this too. I called her my sugar-mamma (she seemed proud to have my hot young ass with her). I used this time to build comfort as this was the first time I was able to get her isolated. When we left I tried to convince her to come back to my place. Telling her I only lived a mile away. She then told me about having her kids the next day and had made plans to go on a short road trip starting in only a few hours. It became pretty clear that logistics were not going to allow this. So I did kiss close her after getting a hug... I said "Really? A hug?!?! What is that crap? I feel like family now. Hahaha" (there's a joke about everyone in Arkansas being related and insessed) She laughed, then I grabbed her by the waist and pulled her back in close for kiss. Which she reciprocated, but only shortly. When she pulled away she said "What am I doing? I shouldn't even be talking to you. I went out with my friend tonight to dance and ended up having breakfast with some guy?!?! I DON'T DO THIS! HA!" I told her she's a little more adventurous than I thought. Then told her that I'd help her do more things she does not do. She bit her lip at this. She told me "Oh? When do you plan to do this?" "I'll have my assistant get with your people" I said... I got her number. And called her right there to make sure it was real. I grabbed her hand, kissed it and said some cheesy line like "farewell, Cradle Robber" and winked as I walked away.

I got a facebook add from her today and will probably set up a day two soon.

So. I guess the highlights are.
-pulled someone ten years older than me who wasn't at all interested in meeting a guy at a bar. Not the close I wanted but I'm happy I was able to do it. I have a pretty strong feeling that I was the first guy she'd left a bar with in many, many years.
-My friend is a brilliant person to stand by when not approaching because he offers no threat and gets approached by a ton of girls that then I can pivot from. (going to do this more often"
-was interesting to start gaming a woman so late in the conversation. We talked for a good ten minutes before I even began to find her attractive. (this can happen the other way around too... remember that)
-Understand the limits of the night and make bold moves but don't throw it away. I could have made a bigger effort to SNL. But it would have been a lot of work. I took the safer road which will probably meet me with less resistance by giving her a fantasy of date two and walking away like it was no big deal I wasn't getting laid that night.

Anyway. Had fun the whole night and did something new.