try to pick up a girl saying as little as possible, try and try and try again, keep trying until you either succeed or give up, you will figure out the answer you seek

This.

Field tests never lie. Infield, you'll discover that picking up new girls when you approach them initially involves a lot of talking. On the other hand, girls who approach you will require less talking and more listening. Likewise, girls in your social circle require more listening than talking. Eventually, you'll realize that the answer to your question is situational.

However, whether you talk less or more, it's your job as a PUA to always steer the conversation to fun and sexy topics. I talk to set the frame for sexual topics and let the girls take it from there. If you cannot manage the conversation topics well, you cannot get laid.

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Talking is totally overated, you can do almost every step in silence, opening, mid-game, escalating, everything. I only really talk in the opening exchanges, but in mid-game especially I just let alpha presence do the talking. I'm not natural a big talker and if anything it works to my advantage. I let the other idiots in the group talk shit while i sit there not giving a shit and eye fucking the girls.

Random example my mate opened a 4 set, he yapped his head off while i sat there and virually said nothing for hours, he left with nothing i had HB8 invite me back to her place, said virually nothing to her all night, all body language body language body language.

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No, being talkative isn't that important, but being social is important. There is a big difference.

My favorite TV series is the Sopranos, and Tony Soprano, a true alpha male, identifies himself as "the strong, silent type" and he gets all kinds of pussy in the show, and he is seriously overweight. While I understand this is a TV show, I believe it does hold conducive to reality.

Think about some of the greatest alpha males you know, do they chat your ear off? I really doubt it, talking too much takes a lot of effort for approval seeking. The alpha male says as little as possible to get a point across, he isn't short, but he clearly communicates. You just need to be able to hold your frame, and not be afraid to say what is on your mind. I honestly believe you can seduce a girl without saying anything at all, and I have gotten close a couple times

You must be social though if you are going to get girls, you shouldn't be in the corner by yourself. Alpha males have a supporting cast. Interact with them, but don't chat their ears off.

A lot of times, less is more when it comes to talking. I create so much more sexual tension by looking girls in the eyes, by my body language, and by touching them, than I do by talking.

i wouldnt know what the anser was at first but after reading the entire post i got an answer. i think it is about how confortable you feel around chicks. if for example a friend introduces a new chick to you and suddenly says i gotta go to the bathroom and left the 2 of you alone. and you seemed super confortable being quiet or talkative she would sense that. its not really important if your talkative or quiet, its more about how confortable you feel being yourself. if your talkative but not confortable it wouldnt take you anywhere. as if if your quiet and nervous she would sense that. you can be either one talkative or quiet but you gotta be super conforable to get chick around you.

During the first approach should be talkative. During the rapport building stage don't talk too much, try listening to what she has to say instead.