Hey Guys,

Out of being an AFC - I have since discovered the PUA world in the last month.

Was wondering if anyone could help advise me on a sticky point.

I recently went out on a date with a girl who I found to be absolutely amazing. Not looking to fuck her but genuinely to have a relationship. Saw her in a picture with a friend of mine on FB and told my friend how incredibly beautifly she was etc.

Added her friend and it was on. My friend had clearly talked to her and she was really into me - she even suggested that we grab a drink.

I am a pretty good looking guy and most girls think I am pretty hot - but clearly I have 0 game.

We went on the date and clicked and had an amazing night - thought she was the one.

Went overseas, came back 6 days later - then called her up. No reply. Called her a few hours later No reply.

Messaged her - 'hey tried to call - everything ok?' - she replies 'yeh just on the phone to my mom..sorting out some stuff'.

Spoke a bit after and I am ashamed to say, but I didn't want to lose this girl because I really felt like we are amazing together and could tell she is like marriage material ( I know it sounds lame ).

Long story short, I told her that I really wanted to take her out because at this point I felt that it was already dead and so I thought whatever I may as well try and that I really felt something.

She didn't reply.

I want to know - in this scenario - where the date went so well and she was so into me - what did I do wrong?

Clearly at the end - when she wasnt even interested - I tried everything and it came across as desperate but I genuinely thought it was dead.

Any help would be welcome - have started reading the book 'the game'.

Thanks,

James

She might be facing some family problems or her ex re-initiated...
Cool down for around a week and give it another shot.

It happens, focus on becoming less invested. If you're thinking about how perfect for you she is or how beautiful or whatever you're going to seem needy. Get to know her more on a personal level, her good and bad before deciding whether she's awesome or not your type.
I've met stunning girls with awesome personalities but were compulsive cheaters either admittedly or with a replicating history, unless you truly don't give a shit then that's not what you want.
Get to know her, and have some standards for yourself.

Probably liked you and pissed you went overseas and got a bunch of tail(What she thinks anyway). She was playing games, bro. You failed hard. She wanted attention and you went overboard.

You should have dropped her a line, something simple: "Hey, just back from X. Wanna go for a drink?" If she didn't reply just leave it for a week.

Don't worry though, i've done it myself... You can salvage it depending on how well you clicked and how into you she was. Just play it cool, don't be needy and make her come to you(Freeze her out). Just don't give her too much attention or you'll lose it.

Also, you closed her on your date, right? If you didn't kiss then i'd say there's something wrong there!