Hi guys , not sure if this is the right place to post but I think it is. Anyways basically I went on a cruise for 3 days, nothing happened first day. 2nd day without trying I approached a girl at the club and we naturally hitted off and I bought her a few drinks and we danced, then I told her lets get out of here and go to my place. So we did and had sex, overall a great night. Also Found out from people that knew her that she has a boyfriend, so when I asked her about it she jokingly kept denying it and she knew I was single.

Anyways next day morning when we were having breakfast she said I hope you don't hate me but I have to tell you something. So I am like what is it ? she says its complicated. So I am like just tell me im sure it will be fine, shes like I have a boyfriend. So I was like... that's it just a boyfriend ? I was like so whats complicated about that jokingly lol. Shes like well I kinda live with him too. So I told her basically it does suck because I do like her but Im like I guess we can just have fun for now and if things escalate in the future... we can just figure it out then.

By the way I am against cheating but figured I was on a cruise and single so I said fuck it ima have fun with this girl. so this next day we had even more fun together, we were together all day , hung out at the jaquizi and then club then my room had sex for hours. basically I was trying to do my best not to get attached and thought we would just have fun, but I started liking her to much so now I cant stop thinking about her.

after the cruise she droped me off home because I kinda came with friends and decided to have her take me home instead of friends. By the way she said she doesn't do this usually and supposably she just felt a crazy connection with me , and she would say she really likes me even during sex. at the end we decided to still see each other but to keep it to texting cause shes a busy musicion and im sure cause of the boyfriend.

sorry for this being long but I just need advice in what to do. I am starting to feel I got more attached to her and I will fall for her if I keep seeing her. And definetly if I fall I cant deal with her going back to her lame boyfriend.

Any advice would be appreciated or if you guys have any questions of anything I might of left out just let me know. thx guys.

Just play it cool and move on. Women can lose interest really fast. She will prob forget about you while she is with the bf for a moment.

Your opening is when she breaks up with him. So be cool. text her every so often and go game some other chicks.

Well I was trying to just have fun with her but I started liking her more and more and not just sexually. As far as the boyfriend she said they have broken up like 5 times lately and I wasn't trying to get her to leave him cause I don't know her that well yet. But when I asked her if she was in love with him, she hesitated but basically said she kinda is in love causes shes been with him for 3 yrs, and also both are musicions and she said they live together but see each other maybe once a week lol. Anyways your advice is appreciated, thx bro.

Really simple.

There is no way in hell she's committed to him. Keep having sex with her and she'll be yours in no time.
Just concentrate on the sex at the moment.

Thx for the advice bro but seems like she is attached maybe not to him but the life style and she believe this is the guy that gets her cause they are both musicions. She says she likes me but in the long run she doesn't think it will work out. But still wants to be friends and doesn't want to say goodbye. We are going to maybe go out for Halloween or whenever we can but she says we have to behave lol like try not to be intimate basically. SHes like almost 100% she doesn't think she will ever leave this guy so I am prolly just wasting time I dunno. Fucked up part is I really like her, she is hot but besides that its the connection I have with her.

Either way she definetly is not the bring home to mom type, seems like she wants to be with that boyfriend and mess with other guys when it happens naturally basically. I doubt she will leave the boyfriend of 3 yrs for me of 2 days. Also she said she is never going to get married lol. ALso she is 28 yrs old and I am almost 33 yrs old.

Feel free to give your thoughts guys and thx.

If her lifestyle depends highly on this guy she probably wont leave him. I been in a similar situation, girl clearly liked me more bur i couldn't provide the lifestyle he did, so he satisied her lifestyle, i satisfied her pussy, and to her it was perfect, but despite her craving my cock she would flat out refuse to leave him. This went on for a wgile and it was pretty good, i got easy hasslefree sex while he did all the heavy lifting. Keep banging her that's probably what she wants, but doubt she'll date you seriously.

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