In another post I talked about a girl I have a crush on. So yesterday used natural game but still used a lot of principles such as body language and teasing etc but mostly I just showed a lot of confidence. I passed her shit test. She mention her ex was an ex marine and a black belt which I knew was a shit test she wanted to test how secure I am with myself. When I said bye to her I noticed the same guy I saw her with the other day. I know this is who I am competing against because when I turned my head I saw him trying to hit on her. I am not threatened by him just want him out of the picture. I am physically more attractive because I work out a lot and dress nice. This guy is kind of a dork, he is on the deans list etc. I just want him out of my way I could AMOG him but I dont want to look like a jerk.

Be a better man than him. Making him look bad will make you look bad. The girl has to know you're going to fuck her better than he will. And who ever is the better man is the one who will fuck her better. That's the one she will keep wanting to get fucked by.

Pretty broad answer. I need to know how to show I am better. The only thing I haven't done is Kino and I am scared I will creep her out if I go in for a hug.

You've gotta go kino, test the waters with her! I agree with magikal, let her know you'll fuck her wayyyy better than the other guy! You can do this by being playfully suggestive just explore her boundaries but if you frame the interaction as a bit of fun and calibrate appropriately then you'll be fine! For example if she looks slightly uncomfortable with anything you say or do quickly change the subject to something positive or funny then give it a minute and restart kino escalation alternatively you could even neg her by saying "you're not as fun as I thought you were" with a playful smirk then restart kino! works for me because it's congruent with my personality

Hope this helps
Júan

You gotta get this roadblock out of the way. Kino is super important. I go for kino pretty much RIGHT OFF THE BAT when I meet people. If they call me out on it? Well, I'm just touchy feely.

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I suppose I should go Kino. The guy kind DLV when I see his posture and when he speaks to her he gets into interview mode and doesn't give her a lot of eye contact and I dont see her smiling and having a good time like she does with me and he seems too needy. I push and pull a lot which has kept her interested in me. I guess kino would speed things up. How can I Kino without making her feel uncomfortable.

Kino doesn't make women uncomfortable unless you are a creep. And if she is, you will know, she will move away etc.

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