So I opened and got a convo going with a girl from a dating-site.

After a few messages back and forth, I found out she went to the same college as me, so I asked if she had ever been to [this bar], to which she replied

HB: "no i havent... hmm maby I should consider it ".

ME: "well, you're new, so you are excused, but I think a sassy girl like you would fit right in. But there is a risk of being involved in a game of beer-pong, so be prepared for that "

HB: "hehe Nooooo I have never tried that before, so I'll probably lose "

ME: "Then it is only about time you try it.. Maby we need to use the girly-rules.. ? Naah, we just need to find some suited opponents. The teams are 2 against 2, so its not going be TOO bad. But lets continue this on text, here' my number, text me. xxxxxxx"

HB: "Well thats good, but I probably wont be at the bar anytime soon "

Each of our response had more content, but I only posted the "relevant".
The convo is also translated, so the wording might sound a bit odd.

Yes, I am hinting that I want to setup some sort of date at the bar, but I have no idea when yet.. So far, I just wanted to transfer our communication to phone/text. What should I do from here? Wait for a bit and see if she texts me, or keep the convo going on the site?

Too long an too gamey. Usually, when a woman responds online, she is already interested. You don't have to game her much if at all, you just have to iron out logistics. Find out that she is free sometime in the future by asking a question like "What are you up to this week? anything exciting?" and then suggest meeting up sometime.

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When shopping for a Ford:

The salesman will come out and chat with you. He'll ask about the weather. He'll ask about the traffic. He'll tell you about the car. The engine's like this and the safety features are like that. You ask one question and then he tells you about his wife, he'll asks if you you have kids, how his wife loves the leather seats. Then he talks about the warranty, the payment plans, blah, blah, blah, blah.

When shopping for a Mercedes:

The guy let's you stare at the car in peace... then he asks, "You want to take it for a spin?"

Asking a girl out is not some formal contract. You don't offer every detail and every little story to sell the idea. Look, YOU KNOW if a girl likes the idea or not. "Maybe I'll consider it." - This MEANS YES. Do you really think that a girl will tell you, "Yes! I am definitely going to that bar with you. Yes, yes, yes. Then we will get drunk and then I will suck your cock in the backseat of your car!" OK, I am exaggerating but a girl will not ASK YOU out will she? And get out of the mindset of trying to "hint" at anything. You ask her out or you don't. Hinting will get you nothing.

Right when she says, "Maybe I'll consider it." You go, "Cool, how about Saturday." - JUST AS if going there together isn't a big deal at all. After reading how she communicates she will answer probably answer with a 10% chance, "OK," or 90% chance "I don't know, maybe." So you go, "Alright, give me your number and I'll call you to see if you have free time on Saturday."

Yes, it's just as simple as it looks.

Invest just as less as she is. don't put yourself out there too much or you'll seem needy.
Just Be casual and set up a date, if you're throwing junk in that isn't relevant or necessary you're cutting off her line of attraction to you.

The problem is that I was unsure when I was free myself, so I just wanted to #-close and setup something later..
Which was maby a stupid move.. So I just decided that i was free and went all-in..

ME: "What about next friday, the 1st of november? Which is also where the christmas-beer is released. "
HB: "Well, I am going to [Something] with my classmates there. "
ME: "Arrh sounds boring. But its actually friday tomorrow aswell. How about we get a beer there? There is always time for ONE beer. But you have my number, so you can always throw me a text."
HB: "Hehe I am going to [Something] and then home and hang out with a girlfriend. But where is your Café located? "
ME: "It is at [Somewhere]. Just next to [Some building]. [Address] to be exact "
HB: "Well, I know where [Some building] is "
ME: "If you can find that, I can come catch you and guide you to safety at the bar.. or café as you call it! What about tomorrow at 18:17?"
HB: "I am going with some friends to a bar, so we'll see where we end up "
ME: "Well, if you throw me your number, I can give you a call if/when we head to the clubs."
HB: "I probably wont end at the clubs, as I have work saturday "

Thought I had it half way.. But meh.. I could have suggested that I meet her at the bar she was going to with her friends, but naah.. fuck that..

What would you do from here, or what would you have done different?
I'll probably let it die from here.. meh..

I am a man. I don't know you... so this isn't personal...

Zzzzz...z...z...z.....

Kasabi is pretty spot on with his post "Cool, how about Saturday." as it is straight forward and keeps it simple. If she says "no" or makes any other excuse, just reply, "cool another time then" but don't make it a question, make it a statement (i.e. you're not asking her, you're telling her). Everything you texted her in your 2nd post sounds needy. Stop begging!

If she says no, there is not really much you can say to make her change her mind. IMO if you set a meeting and a girl says no, then there are two possible reasons:

1. She is not interested (but likes chat buddies)
2. She is not comfortable enough yet

If you suggest meeting and she already has plans then she will suggest an alternative (if she likes you). Each time you ask her for a number or to meet you, you are lowering your value. Be straight forward and be confident. "Hey punk, we are heading out to X place on Friday, you should grab a couple of friends and stop by!" If she says anything but "Yes" don't reply...If she says yes, wait atleast 20-30 minutes and reply with a simple acknowledgement like "Cool, see ya there". It is the KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid) method.

Peace...

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