One of the girls I've really liked and some how lost... We have only been on two dates (due to work schedule // living an hour apart), 1st date I k-closed, 2nd date we ended up making out in her car.... We were planning to go on a 3rd date but then she started slowly replying to texts and eventually fully ignored me (i think she got pissed i ignored one of her texts and she hasnt been the same ever since)... this was a girl who would text me 24/7 EVERYDAY. She had very high interest and i think she lost interest when I didnt f-close on the 2nd date...

She hasn't returned any texts ever since, i didnt go overboard but after she ignored a couple of my texts i backed off for a month and tried again... she still didnt reply... its been 3 months, is there some sort of opener i can use to try again?

I've never had a girl chase me like this girl once did, but she pulled a huge 180... She went from texting me 24/7 to not wanting to talk to me.... i feel like i got nothing to lose at this point since it doesnt seem like she will ever hit me up, so should I shoot her a text? what is a good opener? I always had a feeling this girl still likes me but i played way too many mind games with her and i lost her... i was being too much of a PUA instead of stickin to the relationship game...

Two things...

1) you probably texted way too much

2) why are you even interested in a girl an hour a way who has conflicting work schedule.

Oh, and try a damn phone call every once in a while.

1. True, that is something i changed in my game since. you live and you learn... But she was one of those girls that ALWAYS texted, if i took time to reply she would text multiple times... by the end of it she got fed up and started getting pissed because she knew i was playing games with her... I know that pissed her off and was one of the main reasons why I lost her...

2. Out of all the girls I dated all summer this is the one girl I liked the most, she was the keeper... we had a lot of similar interests and we hit it off right away... she is my type of girl and i fucked up but if i ever get her talking to me again i know i can get her back... and she is in school now, her school schedule is different she isnt working two jobs anymore and her school is closer to me so shit can actually work out now.. plus she last said she was planning to move downtown by january (which is coming up) so it would be a good time to try again with her...

does a phone call really work when a girl ignores you? i know the right text at the right time can work...

I'm probably a bit older than you and game girls 23-30 typically. But I find a phone call to be much better than text. If she'sin the least bit interested she'll answer or call back. Calls are generally seen to be more important than texts. If you get nothing from a call. Give it up. She's just not that into you.

She is 20, I'm 23.... The whole time we were talking/dating (like 6 weeks) she never called me once, it was always texts... and she was chasing me hard... i guess what im looking for is how to make her forgive me for playing with her head? i know she has some interest but is a random phone call enough?

Sometimes you fuck up and have to move on having learned a lesson. The school of hard knocks comes at a price. Take your lesson and pay the bill.

Amen... I don't feel too bad when I lose a girl, as long as I learn something I just take it as experience... I'm new to this game but I am learning a lot fast and getting there...

this is it. it was there for the taking, and you didnt take the shot. a real alpha male goes after what he deserves. take it from a guy that's had his ass handed in this similar scenario, more times than he could count haha.i've learnt here and my general rule now is, if shes in your bed/car, where ever she can be fucked, its all you need. go with the gut feeling and fuck her good.

dont use lame shit like F-close, HB 1-10, F-zoned and my personal favourite - field testing. this shits for nerds. its 2013 and this aint some world of Warcraft crap.

drop the games. if its that easy, there's no need to go and shoot yourself in the dick playing games. ask yourself why you need to make it so hard for her.

eitherway i think its dead. dont get hungup here. onto the next. if you see her, talk to her like a normal human being and take it from there

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not fucking her that night was one of the reasons, but she still texted me when she got home and got all lovey dovey, then texted me the next day in which we set the 3rd date... then i dont hear from her and she was gone... i dunno why i played all these games, i guess i just got all this pua shit in my head and tried to keep her chasing, she chased me for 6 weeks and i kept my self unavailable and made her work... she clearly got frustrated and hates me now... i regret it so much cause this is actually a girl i would have wanted to date long term, she was definitely the best girl i dated in awhile and we had way too much in common... i thought i had her around my finger but clearly not...

and thats the problem... like i said, i wont ever see her again... so the only way i can get her back is if i go to her school and try to catch her randomly or at her work which is like an hour away, two options that i wont go for... maybe id get lucky one day and catch her in a club but thats real unlikely... is it a bad idea to just throw in one last call considering i lost her anyway?

I read your original thread about this girl. For one reason or another she decided against you...I guessed originally another dude and I still think that. She stopped replying to your texts four months ago, why would she suddenly start replying now that you two haven't spoken in four months? Her interest isn't suddenly going to be rejuvenated when she sees your number pop up on her phone. Just let it go and move on. I know you said you wanted closure etc. but sometimes you don't get that and have to move on anyway.

A lot can change in a few months, I don't know where she stands or where or head is at... I just hear about guys turning a situation around and getting a girl back, and I guess that is what I want... I know my situation is way harder because I won't see her in my daily life and all I got is her #... And I don't know for sure if there was another guy or not, but I agree that there might have been one because there was no way she could have lost that much interest that quick...

I can game this girl so easily if I get her on talking terms, I KNOW this girl I just gotta tighten up on the things I slipped on... I fucked up and let her get away, it's my fault I just want another shot... I can't let this one go, I've dated a few girls since and only one of them I had feelings for... But this girl is at the top of the list...

There is always something different when you haven't contacted someone in a while... And if I hit her up in the right time I can get her on talking terms and take it from there... I know if she is happy and all that ish that I won't get that opportunity and can't change her mind on me...

You have seen guys get back with ex's true...after long relationships that leave lingering feelings. This is different in that she was never your girlfriend, you didn't have a deep relationship with her or even have sex. You went on a few dates and shared texts. Your trying to get back on speaking terms from long distance with a girl you haven't spoken to in 4 months! Move on and like the other posters said learn from your mistakes.

Mate, 3rd date was her way of clearing the air with you or ending it on a string. look what its's done to you. you're the one that's thinking about her and like other's have said here, shes probably met another lad that's shown her a wild side and takes risks. if shes Fit, you can guarantee most of the time,that this is the scenario. hot girls get approached daily. simple. dont take it personal, just learn, move on, and apply that knowledge on your next one

you've mentioned that, "I can game this girl so easily if I get her on talking terms" this here is your issue. fuck games. fuck all these gimmicks that land girls in bed, instead work on being an attractive man, because, what's happened here from what i see is that you've run out of tricks and she's picked up on it. girls are fucking good at this.

all the best brother.

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Guess you guys are right, better to just forget about it then get any hopes up...

Guessing she might have found a guy by now, but hey, you have nothing to lose, make a call.

Call her and check up on her, then set a date.