| From my personal experience, I've made many women squirt without NLP and I have also given verbal commands to enhance the experience. If you can give a woman 10 orgasms, it doesn't matter if she's squirting or not...the sex is good. If you can make her cum, even though she's telling you she can't have another orgasm, the sex is good. Good sex is a piece of the relationship pie, but it's not the whole pie.
I've made a woman squirt standing up. Another squirt on her knees. Another on her back, on the couch, but it was better when she was on the bed with her legs hanging off and I told her to "push". Another on the bed with my fingers and she continued to squirt while having sex. She soaked a towel and two blankets - pretty embarrassing. What sucks is that once you get them going, it's part of the bedroom experience and it makes a mess.
The best technique I have found is to insert the middle finger and ring finger pretty deep in the vagina, with the index and pinky pointing to her ass. Then I flick my fingers in a half-second rhythm, which reminds me of a crawdad flicking its tail. The fingers massage the G-Spot and move across the "spongy" tissue which results in the squirt. I'm not gentle. She will let me know if it hurts.
I've also brought women to the teargasm by using suggestion. One woman said that she might squirt, and then I added "or cry" to finish her thought. Since I didn't make her squirt, the only other option was to cry. I could tell that another woman was emotional, so I told her it was OK to cry and she started crying. After a few minutes, I told her it was OK to stop. She loved it.
As a man, you have a lot of control in the bedroom. Most women want to be lead by someone who knows what they are doing. You control a change of position. You tell her what you want, and what you want her to do...including having an orgasm. During intercourse, I will say, "Can you feel that? I'm hitting your spot right now. Do you feel it? Isn't that crazy, how that makes you feel? How it makes you cum?"
I also use the "Kiss Tease" effectively. Having sex in the missionary position, you tell her to kiss you. When she tries, you pull away and say, "I want you to kiss me when you cum." Keep thrusting, and brush your lips on hers and say, "Don't kiss me until you're ready to cum. Then I want a big kiss." Keep thrusting and lick the the edge of her lips, then say "Are you ready to kiss me?" It takes like two minutes to bring a woman to orgasm this way, and you can run it right after she has already had an orgasm - like if you just ate her out.
For more of my secrets, you'll have to buy the book.
~ VanDamn
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