Hi guys, I haven't been doing this long, I've start from complete 0 and have come along way. I don't use gimmicks and routines but go for the natural approach; I've had a few successes. The problem I have now is as follows when closing:

I can open a HB 6-10 directly in the day time, she loves the compliment, the middle chitchat etc, however I get the whole "I've got a boyfriend" SPAM lol they even still talk to me when they even have a boyfriend you actually see there thinking of cheating god know if they're telling the truth.

Or

I get rejected because even though they find me attractive etc, they're just too scared and won't exchange numbers, go for coffee, or just weirded out because I'm chatting them up in the day... Dispite the IOIs even after the intreaction etc.

Don't get me wrong I do get some closes (normally with girl I don't really care about), but more often flakes and sometimes rejections even though I get a +ve response during an interaction. Or I'll text them on fb to find they haven't friended me or don't reply... same with the texts.

Help me guys! Can my success rate be improved or am I doomed with the few girls I don' want and would never shag lol. p.s. sorry to sound arrogant but it’s just frustrating when you cant get the girl you want.

Are you trying to fuck them same day or are you just number closing and saying goodbye. If you go to a mall or something most girls are going home afterwards anyway. I haven't done much day game but just like night game I found the best way is to go for SNL every time.

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No bruv just trying to get No and FB closes... then do the other stuff latter on a later date but I either majority of the time don't get the close or if I do it flakes later. Forgive my ignorance what's SNL?

I've been consistently practising pick-up for years, which includes specialising more in day-game than most people I know. And what you described still happens to me all the time. Do I get success as well? Absolutely. You have to take the good with the bad... certainly no one's "above the process". In terms of tips to help improve your efficiency, I would say your apparent "frustration" has manifested into outcome-dependence which women can sense and makes it more difficult as time goes on.

My best day-game victories have come from completely letting go, being very self-amused and not even thinking - a pure expression of positive state while being calm, relaxed and sub-communicating that I'm a normal guy who lives in abundance and takes chances. Due to some girls not liking you approaching them, you might be missing chances with more open girls to build rapport, instant-date, escalate, etc - everyone's different and you have to stay content no matter what.

In short - focus on what you have control over, keep learning about day-game from experience (ie. judging comfort levels and moving things forward) and focus on what you have control over (ie. strong reality and attempting to defeat negative social conditioning), instead of what you don't have control over, like flaky people or bad state that is bringing down your state "to their level". Remember, most people are "plugged into the Matrix" in everyday life. Good luck!

SNL is Same Night Lay... but in this case, we could call it SDL.

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Yeah your quite right I'll bear that in mind and think of what you said the next time I go sarging. lol SNL .