so for the past 2.5 years - ever since i turned 21 - ive been going out to clubs a couple times a month. i was always drinking since i always had someone to drive my drunk ass around, but lets get to the point. when i have 5-6 beers in me, it feels like my balls just get huge, i lose all my approach anxiety, confidence goes way up and i can easily number/kiss close or sometimes even f-close. i could number close most girls i choose to number close easily. but yesterday was my first time out as a designated driver and i was sober all night. we went out at like 9pm and bounced a couple of clubs until about 2pm when everything got closed. then strip club afterwards... well the first part of the night with night clubs i only had 2 beers and was somewhat feeling relaxed and i noticed a lot of girls giving me IOI's and i talked to a few and it was decent. danced for a little bit, too. but within a couple hours when the alcohol completely wore off it felt like a hit a brick wall... i could barely work myself up to go talk to a girl and id run out of things to say extremely quickly if i did come up to her. dancing felt awkward, too. bottom line is that when im sober, i got like no night game. we even had girls ready to go to a hotel with us but my buddy was the only one who pulled his girl and mine only gave me her number and left with her friends... it felt so terrible. only when we went to a strip club at like 3 in the morning and i got a lap dance i started to feel like my balls are coming back but it was time to drop everyone off and go home...

my doctor told me that i have to quit drinking for 9 months or at least keep it in moderation - three beers tops every few nights at the most - because of a medical condition and meds involved so i definitely need to improve my sober game a lot more or else i wont get any pootang for almost a year... where do i even start. when im drunk i dont even give a #$% what comes out of my mouth when im at a club talking to girls and it almost always goes good but when im sober im a total AFC. i need your help guys...

if you got out sober regularly you get used to it and your sober game will improve heaps

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I had that problem when I was about 17 years old. I'd always hookup drunk but literally fail when I'm sober (mostly friendzone). You can try being more acting during day game, it would help tons. And trust me, once you get good at night game with no alcohol, you'll feel way much better, even the sex feels better.

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You built up your "game" and your personality around being drunk. Go out sober... Fail a bunch of times. Tear yourself down. And rebuild.

Your game SOBER will actually be much better than when you are DRUNK because you will actually be able to COMPREHEND what's going on around you.

Seriously, I don't know how someone can game (or do anything else for that matter) while drunk. Your judgment is clouded, your reactions are slower, your movement is impaired... Get sober and see your game improve.

if i pace myself and dont drink too fast i can finish a 12 pack in a night and still walk in a straight line and feel somewhat sober etc. the thing is that im way more talkative and just dont care abut what reactions i might get to what i say to a girl and what people around me think of me. when im sober i just tend to think about what im gonna say too much and end up choking out.

thanks to all of you guys for the pointers. i just got that book by neil strauss called "rules of the game" and im just gonna start from scratch. its supposed to be a 30 day program... ill just tear down and rebuild my whole game just like TheMajikalMethod said. thanks a lot guys!

'Sup. So here's what I do. I go out, rollin my caddy (car for those of y'all who don't know ghettoese) and then I walk into the club and take a swig for every girl I talk to. If I see the honeys all over the place, I have a great time testing my skill with all of them and am drinking and testing my skills at every level of sobriety. Now there are a few times I've ended up throwing up on the floor and mumblin' about the PS3, but that's in the past. Sheeeat, my drunk game is so good, people were clappin' as I fell to the floor last time. Is that not ballin enough to get the honeys?

That's alot of money blown and un-needed calories consumed for pickin up honeys with the homies, bro.