hey friends,

sorry if this is a wrong forum. I got a serious suspicion that a girl is talking bad about me behind my back, I am chatting with her from time to time and had invited her to go out a couple of times but most of the times she was busy, today I invited a friend of her and after she had agreed to hung out with me, after she had chatted with her she told me that she doesn't have mood to go out.

I suspect that she has been badmouthing me, I haven't done anything to make her angry, just that once she knocked my door uninvited and there was another girl in my house. Maybe it became a topic of discussion, that I have had sex with a couple of girls.

Do you have any suggestions how I could deal with this? how can I be sure that she is doing it? I don't care about her thinking about me but it ruins my social life a bit :/

She is man, she was over at my place talking shit about you.
Just kiddin man, but really, there's no way anyone can give you any solid direction here. We don't know what the fuck is going on.

If I were u I would just ignore it.

I would appreciate some tips if someone has had a similar experience, we never know exactly wtf is going on anyway.

Girls gossip. All u can do is live with it.

I guess so, but I think have to cut contact with her, this is getting stupid enough