Hi,

I wrote this HB10 like a week ago on POF, and she wrote back today. I basically blew her off, saying something really short and cute and that I was going to a birthday party tonight, and she wrote back right away. I don't usually blow off HB10s, and she's acting interested, but my experience with girls who write back after a week on POF is that they generally aren't into actually hanging out right away, even if they seem really interested, but they are usually responsive.

I'm trying to figure out the best way to handle this. I could turn on my long, slow game... that is a waste of time for most girls, but it looks like it could be worth it for this girl, I am pretty good at that. It could take up to a couple of months, though....

Anyone have any similar experiences where they got the girl out without taking a lot of time to build a connection?