Alright well i just started university this year and since i live at home i havent really met any friends. A week ago i met this guy in math class however and he invited me to his party.
So its very important that i form some relationships tonight either with guys or girls because i have a very small social life at the moment.

Now my question, what is the best way to approach girls at parties, and what should i talk about. I find after i exhaust the usual "Where do u live, what program are u in, bla bla bla" theres nothin else to say. I want to make girls laugh and have a great time so they remember me.

My goal is basically to get as many numbers as possible.

So pua masters what is the best way to open and carry on a conversation at a party with the intent of making everyone have fun and to be remembered.

I wanna stand out from all the AFC's at the party.

well, if you want to be remembered don't ask the same boring questions like the ones you just posted "where do u live, which program" etc... You can do that a little later in the conversation at least. Just be fun, if you want an opener I've just started using one I thought of a week ago, just go up to a group of chicks, say in very serious fashion:

"Ladies, I have a really important question for you... Who's most desirable/beautiful/sexy... Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt?"

They'll laugh a little and be like "omg, Johnny Depp of course!", then you can high five them and whatever, bust on them if they give you a weak high five "seriously... thats the most feeble high five i've ever got". Just be fun, joke with them, treat them like your bestfriends. Act like you've known them forever.

UPDATE:

So it wasnt much of a party after all maybe like 20 or 30 people. I spotted the three hottest girls there (best one was probably in 8 but had a bf i found out) and didnt talk to them right away. I tlaked to some kinda ugly girls first and finally i made my way up to the hot ones. My opener for the hot ones was this:
"Hey have u seen anyone drinking pabst blue ribbon because were missing like 5 cans from the fridge, make sure if u see anyone drinking that shit you come and tell me". then i introduced myself and made her laugh and stuff.

I made one mistake with her though, she asked me who i thought the hottest girl in the room was and i said honestly it was her. I geuss that was a bad move in hindsight.

Apart from that i pretty much dominated the party though, people always got out of my way wen i was walking and by the end i had a rapport with everyone (going in knowing noone).

Isolate when you number close.

I fucked up by trying to number close chicks when they're with their friends. You can target multiple HB's in a set, but isolate irst. Granted the party was over and we were leaving, but I actually did not close the hotter target. Oh well.

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A few thoughts on isolating at parties:

I find it easier to isolate at parties because the women hold a presupposition that you "know somebody or the other." This substantially reduces the threat of talking to you, at least initially anyway. Also, groups have a tendency to be more inclusive and receptive to your comments because they don't want to be perceived as "the bitch(es) of the party". With that said, I would open with something casual, and then proceed with a "How do y'all know each other?" It makes for an easy first conversation and it also allows you to get quick information about your target. I would probably hold off on the eccentric DHV routines for the moment (at least until you have enough social proof).

Typically, I isolate my target "inside/outside". For example, if the majority of the people at the party are inside, then I would isolate her outside by using a "Lets go get some fresh air". Now, you both share in a mutual time investment and you can easily get to know one another. This is a good point to bring out the DHV routines!

(**Another important side note: Many AFCs think it is "cool" to show up late to the party. But I would recommend that you SHOW UP EARLY for the following reasons: You have time to get yourself acquainted with the SPAM; You can be the first to game on 'new' targets; and you can spend more time with the host or hostess. . .When you and your target need a room to crash in for the night, it becomes extremely helpful to know the right people!)


-Jay Wa

Thanks for the advice.
My main problem is that once i build kinda a rapport with them i keep approaching them and talking to them over and over. It kinda makes me seem desperate i geuss because as the night progressed the hot girl kinda drew away from me and i couldnt keep a conversation.

If i have nothing to say thats important / funny / watever, should i just not say anything and go talk to other people? I find when i force conversation it gets kinda akward.