I found this forum two years ago, this past month or so.

At the time, I was friendzoned by a girl I had quasi-dated for 6 months and only fucked 4 or 5 times in that time period (when hanging out with her literally every day or almost). She dumped me for a guy who worked at Target (I'm a professional). She was a horrible human being (she intentionally used and manipulated people around her, and was proud of it) and still had me twisted around her finger.

I was an absolute and total bitch. I was spineless at work, I was spineless with women, I couldn't escalate for the life of me. I'd had random sex with a few girls I met on OkCupid, and a couple of ugly girls (one of whom I dated for over a year) in college.

Since that period of time, I've become more and more of a leader of men. I'm happier with myself than I have ever been - I don't constantly analyze and reanalyze my life. I can escalate with girls, I now realize that I am more or less able to meet just about any girl I want. I've had sex with several women who are leagues above what I used to be able to get, including a stripper.

I'm a self directed worker, I teach myself and do projects on my own. I have new hobbies and interests. I bought a new wardrobe, a new car.

I have multiple girls in the wings willing to date me at any point, and several girls I can call over for sex almost any day of the week. I've rejected relatively hot girls because they weren't what I wanted. I've had girls who have rejected me that I've slept with now, and others who I know are incredibly down because of who I've become.

I still make mistakes - I got heart broken earlier this year - but with the help of being able to talk to other women, I was able to recover and more or less get better from it, rather than obsessing or hurting over a girl for ages.

So I just want to thank this forum and this community. I still make a lot of mistakes, but I've become a better, more honest, stronger person because of all of this.

I no longer fear becoming my 48 year old uncle, who has been friendzoned for 15 years to the same woman.

So to conclude:

This shit works.