I have heard of doctors and lawyers who have struggled with women because they had the money but just not the lifestyle. What I have noticed is that attractive women run in certain social circles which are more prominent than others. So how does a guy break into these social circles and give him that chance to get a supply of hot women?

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What is the lifestyle you want? Go and get it.

The only real "rule" is that a woman should want to come into your lifestyle. Most of us aren't rich enough to live the playboy lifestyle, most of us have got duties like jobs or whatever so we can't go out 7 days a week and party it up.

So what sort of lifestyle would women want to become a part of? Get a social life. Go to events. Have various groups of friends you can do things with. Do interesting things with them. Have hobbies which give YOU a fulfilling life - if you're having fun and bring the girl into it, she'll have fun too.

There aren't any particular things you should be doing. Some of the "better" ones for attracting women might be playing sports, being able to play an instrument, learning another language, being well read etc. basically anything you want. Do what you're interested in.

There aren't any shortcuts or cheats for this. Go out and make more friends, go out and find events which are taking place (or look them up on the internet and then go), go to parties, get in with cool people, practice the instrument, join a band, join a sports team whatever. Basically, think about what would be an attractive lifestyle for you, where you'd be having fun, and then go and get involved and do it.

I agree...I think its just that you have to have an avatar for the certain type of women you attract, then just get out there and start approaching...because otherwise you won't get any women sitting at the house! ANYONE can get A girl...just need to go and put for the effort to do it!

I would say start by studying the different types of avatars and lifestyles you want to project and then go and do it!

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What do you mean when you say "avatar"?

"Avatar" meaning archetype. Whatever profession comes with its own patterns

Wow thanks for answering this question! I have been wondering what an avatar was

for the longest!

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ive been devouring all i can on pua literature and nlp and im itching to go crash test in the field but i just dont know where to go. ive been thinking of doing some volunteer work or joining a club or something but im just wondering if anyone has had any success in any particular place or club and how and when and how often you should frequent these places. my lifestyle has no women in it. i work with a bunch of dudes, all my friends are dudes, and i just got out of a six year relationship so needless to say ive been living under a social rock as far as the opposite sex. im all for branching out and expanding my circle of friends and plan to but if anyone knows places to go or things to do to put me in the prime spot for meeting people please point me in that direction.

You can meet and attract women wherever you go. Look around - they're everywhere! The same woman who is Miss Socialite at night is walking down the street at 2:30 on some random Wednesday afternoon, bored as hell. Approach her.