I went by a store I used to work at and just started chatting with some of my guy friends who still work there. Then surprisingly, a girl I used to like, came up to us, and showed us a piece of merchandise and started talking to us.

I'm not good at reading girls and don't know what it means. But my gut feeling is she came over b/c I was there visiting the workplace and chatting with the guys.

I kept it casual and chatting with her and the other people. It's kind of reignited feelings that I had for the girl. Should I go for it or move on?

Mystery once said that it's harder to "game" (i think that's the word he used) a girl you've known from before than meeting for the first time. I'm just worried about the possible embarrassment b/c she does work with a bunch of people I know at the old workplace.

Any tips, suggestions? If I went back and started talking to her, would it be weird to ask for her phone number or should i ask after going back maybe a third time? If i should just go for her number, how would i # close?

One last thing, i'll be going away for vacation for a couple weeks, should i wait till i come back before i make a move or just try to get her number before i go away, so in the next couple days?

any feedback is appreciated.

Get the scope from your mates? If they're guys then they'll no whether she's attached or not. If she's not, then in the same visit, go talk to her. Preferably ask your mates, while looking at her (out of ear shot) That'd totally open the way up for some conversation when you go over there and say "hey" as she'll be smiling at you thinking "what the hell is he talking about, while smiling at me?" coz if she's smiling at you, you'll be smiling back.

No dont say anything to your old work mates, they wont be no help at all.

Its not wrong to go after someone you've known from the past, i think the longer its been since you last seen the better. But remember there are plenty of other girls out there, but at the same time dont write this off. If i was you i would wait until after holiday if you want to avoid the friend zone.
Maybe just say 'we should hang out some time'? Dont worry about the other guys, fuck what they think. Are they really your friends?

I have about a week before I go on vacation. One of my friends was saying, get her number first, give her the impression that you're interested, then make a move after my 2 week long vacation.

So MOZY you wouldn't suggest that i get her number before i go on vacation? Maybe i could get her number and even hang out with her once before i fly.

Whatever you feel will be best, if you still got aweek thats enough time to get the job done.
But i was thinking over the 2 weeks she could lose intrest or attraction for you and could end up LJBF.

you could get her number, go on a short date (say lunch, nothing romantic or anything ) then go on vacation, call her, and build sexual tension with her for the 2 weeks and when you come back she might be all over you, though this is kinda far fetched

a way to get her number would be like:

talk to her for like 5-10 minutes, and in that talk ask her "what is your relationship situation?" but remember to set a false time contraint

then tell her before you leave go like "hey write down your number lets have lunch on X day....etc

and so on hope this may be helpful

hey how you been havent talk to you for a while. After the number close, What you doing today? haha i think what ever you decide to do is good. Should i get her number before my vacation or after? Now for me i would try to get it before my vacation because if i, some how dont get it (#) i wouldnt think about it that much while im on vacation.

p.s. Also if your interested in anygirl ANY GIRL make sure you just go up to her and try to close. You see what you are doing? your stressing, THATS WHY THERE IS A 3 SECOND RULE, the more you think about it, the more you feel that anixety, You should of number close while you was over there talking to her the first time around, Now its obvious if you go back to the store and talk to her your're going to show interest. NEXT time if you decide to GAME anyone JUST DO IT. Life is to short to stress so HAVE FUN, Little advice. Artist

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