| Apologies (not really) for the long read that follows.
Where do i begin.
There are 2 types of people in this world. ONLY 2. Person number 1 Goes for what he wants, move towards what his goals, becoming his best self, becoming a man, becoming a better person, becoming AMAZING. Person number 2 doesn’t.
Congratulations, you made it into the person 1 Category. Good for you. You don’t understand how many other people fit into category 2, FAR to many than you can think of, and I pity them, as should you, I really pity them.
Where do I start. Yeah, I am young, but there is so much shit I have learnt over the years that a 350 year old monk couldn’t tell you, that’s right ladies and gentlemen, I’m wise as fuck. Now I want you to listen up and to listen up carefully, (or to read carefully) cause what I’m about to lay down is going to be real talk, no bullshit, everything you are about to read is everything you need to know in this thing called life, and its really simple. Before we begin, the younger you are, the better, it means you have more time to put this shit to the test, but I don’t care if you’re 50, this still applies to you, so lets begin.
Unfortunately for us, we weren’t given an instruction manual at birth on how to live life, on how to become your best self, and how to make EVERY SECOND COUNT. I’m going to throw in this quote here and make sure you read it twice; “My biggest fear in life would be finding out all the shit I COULD have done, looking at ALL the opportunity’s missed, the girls I COULD have fucked, the relationships I COULD have pursued, Doing what I actually LOVE doing, the man I COULD have become, my best possible self, my full potential, and then realising I lived a withdrawn life of regret.” The quote goes something like that, I threw in my own touch of spice but you get the point.
I’ve done a lot of reading, and I mean A LOT of reading, watching videos research, trying to perfect myself, trying to better myself, and finally there was a day, a beautiful day, where I came to realise that its all a load of SHIT. Well, most of it at the very least. I could say that in my past 2 years of research, I can sum up all the valuable and useful information in this one article, hence saving you 2 years of your life, your welcome, feel free to start smoking. All my past years of trying to better myself, and become the man I WANT to become, is not done by research, I repeat, IT IS NOT DONE BY RESEARCH. So put down that self-improvement book in your hands right now and get a hold of yourself, because when you are done reading this, tomorrow will be the best day of your life; the sun will shine brighter than it ever has, your breakfast will taste sweeter, your stretch will feel better, you will be re-born. Now I know what some of you smart-asses are thinking right now: “But sir, isn’t this an article based on self-improvement?” Right you are motherfucker, right you are, and let it be the only and LAST thing you read on becoming your best self. Ok, enough bullshit, where do I begin, oh yeah, with a coffee. Be right back.
For those of you still with us, well done, I’m proud of you for sticking around, and I’m also proud that you stayed in school and learnt how to read, kudos. Let us begin.
If you are happy, you are successful, not the other way around. Whoa, hold on, what the fuck did I just read. Yeah, that’s right, read it again, and take it in. If you are happy, ONLY THEN are you successful. HAPPINESS IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS, it will get you
All the women you desire,
That job you ever so badly want,
It will allow you to become the person you REALLY want to become, and your mind will finally be at PEACE.
But just to clarify, before we move on, what is success. The first thing that comes to most peoples mind is money. WRONG. Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal. If a man is working towards a pre determined goal and knows where he is going, that man is successful. If you are working on what makes you happy in life, no matter what it may be, you are successful. If not, you are a failure. Simple as that.
But sir, how can one achieve the ultimate happiness? Easy there young padawon; I am going to tell you. The Mind is a powerful thing, so underestimated, yet so damn powerful. It is the reason why you are reading this article, because you think you are not good enough or you are in need of help, It is telling you, that you my friend, are not good enough. Well let me tell you something, the mind can also work the opposite way, and very few people know this, I am just lucky I found this out at an early age, and you are lucky that you are finding this out now. We become what we think about, what consumes your mind, controls your life. If you want to be good with women, you WILL be good with women, if you want to be rich, you WILL be rich. Newtons law states: For every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction. This is a LAW, just like gravity, it CAN NOT be changed or denied, so what I’m trying to say is WHAT YOU PUT IN, YOU WILL GET OUT. You want that body that you see on the front of a fitness magazine? You have to work for it, results come after, work comes first, but that’s not what you are here to read, you already know all this shit don’t you. So lets get deeper.
You have to realize that someday you will die. This is inevitable. Until you have realized this, you are useless. It is time to evolve.
What you are about to read, are words of the dying. People have used their last few breaths, to spit out these words. What you are about to read are the top 5 regrets of the dying, and be GREATFUL you are reading this now with your youth and health, and not on your deathbed.
1: “I wish I had the courage to live a life true to MYSELF, not the life others expected of me.”
As you sit there right now, whether at home or at your job, really think; are you the person you REALLY want to be? Or were you put in that position due to external factors, that is; you parents chose your career, or you couldn’t do what you wanted because your marks were to low. Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life, the most interesting people don’t know what to do at age 24, the more interesting people at age 40 still don’t know where their life is heading. Are you happy as the person you are today? If so, you’re a liar. Otherwise you would not have begun reading this. What is it you want to work on, to become better with woman? To become wealthier? To find a relationship? To be able to talk to people and surpass your social anxiety? Once again, for every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction, work and what you want to improve on, and set GOALS for yourself, and results will show. In fact, it is IMPOSSIBLE for them not to show, as it is a LAW. Do not dedicate your whole life on working towards these goals, I mean, put some determination in them, but do not make them your life’s work, just chill the fuck out. Slowly work towards the goal you have set, and you will eventually end up at the finish line, without even noticing, you WILL end up at the finish line, I can guarantee you this, whatever the goal may be. Wake up every morning thinking about this goal you want to achieve, and happily continue through your day to day life with this goal at the back of your mind, slowly achieving it, and when you go to sleep, think about your goal and what you did that day to help achieve that goal. Repeat.
2: “I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.”
Your job in life, given to you by modern society, is to shut the fuck up and not ask questions. But you know what happens when you start asking questions? You start bending the rules, that’s right my friends, you start creating glitches in the Matrix. You start travelling, you start quitting jobs you hate, starting your own businesses and begin making more money. You start to become successful.
This is one thing I will never understand with you people, why is it you REALLY work so hard, actually think for a second, apart from putting food on the table, and travelling the world, which are the only 2 exceptions, why do you work so hard for? So you can afford the iphone 6 that will make you look cool? So you can afford that shiny new 50-inch plasma TV? Or that sexy looking BMW that will guarantee you all the girls you ever dreamed of? Shut the fuck up. WE WORK JOBS THAT WE HATE, SO WE CAN BUY SHIT THAT WE DON’T NEED. I can never begin to comprehend this. We work jobs that we hate, so we can buy shit that we don’t need.
You are not the car you drive, you are not the clothes you wear, you are not how many face book friends or twitter followers you have, you are not your job, you are not how much money you have in the bank, You are not the contents of your wallet. You are the all singing all dancing crap of the world, and you life is ending one second at a time. Yes, Fight Club. Now for some people, what they just read is a bad thing, and for others it is an excellent thing. And if you understand this, you are clever, good for you.
3: “I wish I had the courage to express my feelings.”
Hey, you see that girl over there with the funky shoes? You think she is beautiful? Go up and tell her, ‘hey girl, you looking fucking phenomenal.’ You want to embark in a relationship with that girl over there in the red dress? Go up there and fucking talk to her, she will admire you’re confidence. THEY WILL ADMIRE YOUR CONFIDENCE, AND CONFIDENCE IS KEY.
Here is a little sub-topic; Woman. With woman, confidence is the ONLY thing you need, please guys trust me on this, don’t bother reading all that pick up artist, ‘Neil Strauss; The Game’ bullshit, I beg you please stay away from that absolute bullshit and the whole PUA community of losers. Be yourself, be confident, and be direct, that’s all you need to know. Talk to the girls you want to talk to, tell them what you want to tell them, express your fucking self, have no fear of anything. With the absence of fear, anything is achievable.
A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G.
But how sir, how to a live a life without fear? Very simple young padawon, fight it. Each time you fight fear, it starts DYING, and you start GROWING. I repeat; each and every time you fight fear, it starts DYING, and you start GROWING. And when you first put that theory to the test, you think, holy shit, that was cool, lets do it again! And you become addicted to this course, and eventually my friends, becoming fearless will be achieved, tick that shit of the bucket list, you fearless motherfucker.
Got a problem with your boss? Approach him. You are an alpha male, this is what you do, express yourself. Call your parents. Go and tell your mother you love her, because one day, she wont be there, go and thank her right now for the amazing job she did raising you, call your father dearest, and say thanks champ, your alright. Tell them, you fed me when I was hungry, and I appreciate that, you kept a roof over my head, and I appreciate that, you gave me a bed to sleep in, and I fucking appreciate that, you did the best possible job you could have done, and I thankyou both.
Just remember, fight the fear. Do one thing everyday that scares you, sing, dance, stand up for yourself, you will be scared the first time, this is inevitable, but once you past that first step, it gets easier, and easier, and easier. Until you become a BOSS.
And the last 2 regrets of the dying;
4: “I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.”
If you guys tune in to who you REALLY are, which is an absolutely free entity, that loves learning, having fun, and being around other people, if you really connect with your inner child, which is all about having FUN, you will ALL quit the system.
5: “I wish I had allowed myself to be happier.”
Go look in the mirror, and look at yourself right now, take a good fucking look. Embrace the power and beauty of youth, because when you get older, you will look back and realize how fucking sexy you actually were, the sad thing is, it is only when you are older you can realise this. But trust me, looking into that mirror NOW, you are as sexy as you will ever be, and trust me once again, you ARE fucking sexy. Enjoy your body, admire it, utilise it. Don’t be afraid of it, and FUCK what other people think about it, your body is the greatest thing you will ever own. Don’t mess around with your hair too much, because by the time you’re 35, it will look 75. Fuck beauty magazines, they are only there to make you feel ugly, so they can sell their product. Really, think about it, you work a job you hate, to buy a beauty magazine you don’t need, it then proceeds to make you feel ugly, feel like shit, you are then sucked into buying their product, which doesn’t end up working, and you are then left even more unhappy with yourself.
Don’t play around with other people’s hearts, and ignore the people who play around with yours. Remember the compliments you receive, and brush of the insults. Seriously, if someone insults you, just laugh. Not taking things to heart shows confidence, and confidence is sexy.
Travel. You learn a lot when travelling. And you meet a shit load of new people. You make new friends, and you are involved in new relationships. Go and see the world, and really take in the things around you.
Now ladies and gentlemen, its time to stop giving a fuck. Those who don’t give a fuck change themselves and the world for the better, those who do give a fuck, don’t. Take life as it goes, don’t think about the future, and forget about the past. Its time to start living NOW, start living in the moment. Not many people can actually say they live for now. Really, go out there and enjoy every minute of your life, get deep into the conversations you have with people, be happy you’re there, notice their reactions, their expressions, eat slowly, and enjoy the flavours running around your in mouth, just enjoy the PRESENT. Live life in the moment. Take things as the come, not as they go. Do not live your entire life as if it were scheduled. Don’t live in sequence, and don’t live a life planned and pre-determined.
But once again, I cannot stress this part enough; it is time to STOP giving a fuck. Who cares what people think, ill tell you who doesn’t care, THEY DON’T. People really don’t care about you, what you are wearing, what you are doing, how your hair is, what you look like. People are selfish, naturally, and most the time they are thinking about themselves.
You guys have to put yourselves first in life, because no one will put you before them. Your happiness must come first. You have to make yourself happy now, starting doing things now, and stop waiting for something or someone to do it for you, because if you wait, nothing will happen, and one day you will eventually be 80, and you will remember this article, and then you will die.
If you made it this far, pull out a pen and paper, right yourself one goal, just one. Write it on a little piece of paper and keep it close to you every day, perhaps in your wallet. Keep this goal in mind and slowly work towards it; it may take an hour, a week, a month, a year. Once achieved, repeat. Evolve. Grow.
I don’t expect you to remember everything you just read, in fact, you are not normal if you do. You are also not normal if you don’t forget all this in a week. So come back once a week, and eventually once a month. And read this again. As long as I can change at least 1 life out there, on becoming their best self, then I have won. Victory is mine. And that’s a goal I can tick off my list.
Don’t worry, be happy, be confident, be successful, everything will be all right.
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CHAT
