hi there. this is my first post. hi everyone.
i have been reading through the threads here and i am curious to see if it is powerful enough to try to help be get a girl back that i used to talk to online. I started talking to her at the beginning of last year. Im from London, she is from Slovakia. We were speaking for about 11 months. In that time things were getting more serious between us and i was trying to book a flight to go to see her or for her to see me. However, on New Years Day i got no happy new years message from her. My pride felt hurt and i asked her why she didnt send me a message. She got really defensive about it and we stopped talking. I tried to apologise to her, i also went to her sister to try to get her help to make up with her, (which was quite a bad thing to do ) but she doesent want to talk to me anymore. I havent sent her a message in about six months. Maybe it is best for me to not talk to her anymore but I do miss our talks that we used to have. I dont really want anything out of it, but it would be nice to talk to her again. Im just curious to know if the people on this website would be able to give me any advice to get her talking to me again. Thank you for reading and have a nice night.

You can't , she's done, you should be too, move on.

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Your odds are extremely low. To be honest, they were quite low to begin with. Long distance online, with a lot of chatting before a meetup is generally very low probability of ever ending in a meet up. You also acted way too needy, going to her sister etc. to "make up" with a woman you have never even met in person. You should move on. It's not what you wanted to hear, but it is the "right" answer.

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hi guys, so i made another different facebook account and i decided to message her. Surprisingly she replied to me (''oh its you! Hi! '' )and said that she would like to say that she is sorry. i replied ''thats ok dear. im sorry too.'' then i asked her about how she was. I have also noticed that she has unblocked my real profile although she hasnt told me that.
She wanted to know why i remembered her, i decided to be honest with her and tell her that i missed her and her humour. ( was that the wrong thing to do?) then she asked me ''what is new with you''? I told her that i was made redundant but that i had found a similar job about a month ago and that im saving up for a new car. I said that it was great to hear from her again and then i asked her how her dog was. (was that ok?) Its wierd, i have for so long wanted to speak to this girl again and i have ran out of things to say for some reason. Can you help me guys, i dont want to screw this up.
I wanted to open up a bit more to her and tell her, that although things between us were sometimes too intense for just an online relationship that we had a good connection between us and that my intentions were never to push her away and that she had been a good friend to me, but i wasnt sure if opening up that much to her was a good idea so i didnt.

She's a "pen pal," and you're treating her like she's your wife or something; dude, you need to bail, and get out into the real world. Be realistic; what do you honestly, realistically, see happening between you and her? Even if (and mother of God it's a HUGE if) you manage to meet one day, do you think you're going to have a relationship with her? You don't even live in the same country...

When I was 16 I was "dating" this girl who lived about 20 min's away from me (might as well be the Moon at 16 with no license), anyways; we used to talk all the time and crap, and I thought I loved her and shit; long story short, the "relationship" we had was all in my head as she was giving it to other guys at the same time.

You a guy from another country she talks too; you're a pen pal..

i want to meet her and bone her. she teased me just now that she said that she would send me a few revealing pictures later, after i sent her a few revealing pictures last year but she didnt get round to it.

you just said it, she's teasing you; to her, you're just some guy on the internet that boosts her ego. You're NEVER going to meet her to bang her; if she wanted to meet you, you would have already. It's the equivalent to obsessing over a webcam girl...

"Did get around to sending revealing pictures;" that's not something women "get around" to doing; if they're going to do it, they do it, right away.

This who thing escalated way more than it ever should have.

well, i just webcammed with her and she ended up stripping off her clothes until she was naked. I dont know where it goes now, but i have since wanked a couple of times remembering some of the visuals of the girl that i had long lusted about.
She had this devilish look on her face, so i knew that she was in an adverturous mood. Maybe she was drunk, i couldnt tell because i dont drink.

Stop!
You're being so needy, and worse yet it seems like you're asking for advice from the members and completely disregarding their suggestions because you're utterly enveloped in this false reality over one girl you ASSUME you have something with.

Here's to telling it to you straight. If you're not her official boyfriend, she could be banging any guy she wants and you can't intervene. You're assuming everything and nothing is set in stone.

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Stop asking for help you ignore and being hooked on a fantasy, you're a man make YOUR decision for YOUR life and stop sitting like a dog waiting for a bone, you're better than that.

And this is why you dont have extended conversations and expend emotional capital on girls you haven't fucked. This is true no matter what type of "magical connection" you think you have. The girl in Slovakia, is probably a fat guy in Nigeria looking for a Money Order.

cneation040713,

U have made a lot of mistakes there. It is really time to move on. There are still many girls out there for you.

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