Thanks to this forum and the people I've met through it, I've had more action in one month than I've had in the past year. I recently had sex with a girl in the back seat of my car. She enjoyed it and came plenty, but I didn't get a nut. I've only been with two other women (relationships) and it is common for me to not be able to reach orgasm the first few times we bang. I was wondering if anyone shares this problem, and if there is anything I can do to help reach a climax on the first time around?

Eek, someone else got to have this sort of problem! Perhaps a mod can move this to the Social Anxiety/Inner Game forum?

I guess i can say welcome to the craizy beasts club (at least some girls called me the craizy beast/boy).

Iv'e have these moments especialy after a few beers where i can easly keep it up and fuck intense for more then an hour withouth cumming at all( i do get close afhter a while but somehow the feeling drops again when you are almost there). It can be realy annoying though since the girls can sometimes feel not good enough.

I'd suggest not watching porn to much and keep a limit on masturbating.

You could also try to consult a doctor to see what he says about it(be sure to pm me the info's if its bad news please).

Lmao awesome post dude. Ya I guess it's just uncommon, perhaps I do masturbate too often. The fact that I was not physically used to her is also a factor I believe.

I have this problem if I wait to get off too long. Basically I can control my orgasm... to a point. If I go for more than about 30min keeping myself from getting off, I'll usually not be able to from sex. One trick I've learned here recently is I can just about always get off if I can get a girl to let me cum on her face as I jerk off. I have to have her beg me to get off or it won't happen. And I have to do it myself. It's a clusterfuck sometimes. Thankfully for me, the act of sex is a lot more enjoyable than the 5 second orgasm and mess I have to deal with when I get off. I will a lot of times just leave things alone if I can't get off just to save myself the trouble of cleaning up baby batter.

Ahhhh the joys of condoms lol that happens sometimes... actually, alot.

The more you get used to having a condom on (cause we all know they are uncomfortable as shit... but also very necessary) the more enjoyable it gets.

Also... stop watching porn! Stop masturbating! It's alot easier to blow your load if you've got days or even weeks of build up in there... Plus, it makes you hornier! Horny= you are way better with women because you are acting on your natural desires.

Thanks for the posts. I usually masturbate once a day but i think my libido is too low these days. Also not doing it i notice im more emotionally unstable.

Props....i will say that I have never heard of a girl actually gettin one off in the back seat from actual sex.