| Hi, need your suggestions after a brilliant night out.
I found myself with 5-6 numbers in my phone, one or two extremely solid, the others not so solid.
The solid are probably leading to first dates soon, so I have no big doubts regarding them.
But there are two girls I need your ideas about.
1) 19 years old australian model, will be in town for 2 months, modelling around. Great interaction, so promising that a friend of mine came and gave me his house's keys to go straight there. Anyway I didn't feel like fucking (came out of a lng relationship few hours before, I was mostly in the mood to have fun) so I didn't push it (usual mistake, I know).
Anyway, the girl takes my number and immediately sends me a text so that I have hers.
I tell her I want to see her for drinks and she seems glad and screams "yeeeah, why not?!"
I neg her a bit too hard, but manage to close well.
Wrote her two days after, saying I'm not in town for a few days but that I'd like to see her when I'm back.
Bit of a cold message, but not terrible at all imo.
2) girl I spoke literally 40 seconds to cause I had to go, I ask the number, she says ok and tell me her name.
I wrote her the day after and she gives me a warm and nice answer (after 10 hours).
Wrote again today that despite we had such a short time, I'd like to see her. Still waiting for an answer.
Those two cases don't particularly worry me, got plenty other opportunities, but I want to learn as much as possible and this is a good occasion.
In particular, how to deal with a number when you hadn't time to connect? The first case is more standard, more like a deliberately missed occasion I'd now like to have back.
Opinions?
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