I've got a few SPs but being too nice is the biggest. It's such a problem it's holding me back from the frame of mind I should be in for PU which is holding me back as a whole.

I can be an asshole in a set and feel nothing for it but if I start getting to know a girl i'll be too nice and can't blow them out. This has actually been a serious problem where i've had women not even on the HB scale hang around me and almost beg me for a kiss... I feel guilty so I end up kissing them and exchanging numbers.

The main problem is this actually happens with women I know in person aswell. They'll grow attracted to me, text me, call me, hang around me all the time, etc. but they clearly see me as boyfriend material. This is a big problem in work and everyday life. I'm talking to someone, they like me, I may like them but prefer someone else and boom! I'm stuck because I can't pursue the preferred choice because i'll upset the other girl.

I'll just be too nice and i'll lead women on. How do I get over this?

it's not a nice guy quality, it's a I want everyone to like me thing

honestly what I would suggest is saying LJBF

when men do it, women tend to be all over us

but when they do it, we have no shot and they get pissed about us continuing to make moves.

It will even work for you if your wanting to keep them as an option, this way she still chases and you can go after who you want to.

careful tho women can be very sneaky she'll start trying shit on you to keep your attention

Thanks for the advice. I think you're right but how do I go about the LJBF talk without upsetting a chick or making it awkward?