How do you players manage SOO MANY phone numbers?



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 29, 2013 9:35 pm 
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I have very bad memory. And when I get back from a decent night out, I have 4-6 phone numbers. I'd have a contact called "Liz Blue dress club x". However, when I call/text I wouldn't know when I met her, or what she looked like. Am I the only one with this problem?

I'm curious as to how you manage all these phone number?


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 29, 2013 11:26 pm 
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I have a similar problem, I can remember their looks but forget any information about them (often due to being drunk...)

If you have a notes app on your phone you might be able to discretely make notes, maybe after your interaction with her.

You could always just take a photo if it's only looks you forget? Take one together, make it fun.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 8:47 pm 
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Put in the description like you are doing, but if you are getting all these numbers and barely remember shit about them, they will probably flake anyways. Focus on getting a girl to want you when you are out, not getting her number.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:15 pm 
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Pretty easy.

If she didn't make a big enough impression for me to remember her. I don't contact and delete the number.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:18 pm 
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One other thing I'll throw in that can be fun. I'll sometimes get them to give me a contact Icon. Basically I get their number and then say "I need a cute Icon for your number". I'll then get them to make some silly face or whatever (just something that makes if a funny photo) and then snap a pic and add to the contact profile in my phone.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:23 pm 
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Damn maybe you should chill out on how often you give your number out.....whats the point of a phone number if you don't know who it is?


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:43 pm 
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lol

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:45 pm 
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Damn maybe you should chill out on how often you give your number out.....whats the point of a phone number if you don't know who it is?
I know what the guy is talking about. In the beginning, you get every number close you can just for the practice. I think homeboy up there just needs to learn to throw them away now. Also, I never give out my number. If I am interested I'll text or call her. If not, I just pitch the contact.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:18 am 
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You are getting too many numbers. If you haven't connected with a girl enough to remember her with a simple "[name] [met at]" how can you expect any of them to remember you or give a shit who you are?

Only get a number if its your only option. If you open a set and it hooks, try and get laid every time.

ABP of pickup, Always Be Pulling. Go out with the mindset of "I want to get laid". "I want to get numbers" is weak. Yeah you won't pull every night unless you are amazingly good (even then you won't EVERY night), but the numbers you do get will be far more solid.

If you are direct and clear about what you want from the start, you will know if she wants you simply by her being there and being attentive. There is also no room for her to bs you and if she gives you any bullshit at all she's instantly disqualified herself to you. Why? You were honest from the start, she should be too and if she isn't, she's not worth your time.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:13 pm 
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The point of pick up is not to get 1000 phone numbers and get flaked on.
Just concentrate on 1-2 girls per night and ensure that you'd have sex with them the next time you see them.

That's just my opinion though


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:26 pm 
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I suggest you stop drinking so much.

Im sure you will remember them if you did this

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Thanks for the feedback. Thats cool if guys go to a venue specifically to connect with one girl and try to take her home. And then, if its not possible, get her number. Nothing wrong with that, if thats your cup of tea.

When I go to a venue, I like to interact with many new people. I connect with a girl, have a good time, and if I feel chemistry, I number close. (I never try to k-close)

In my experience, and in my opinion, within a venue, it's likely there are 10's to hundreds of girls that have potential to be my girl. Or a girl that will have nice chemistry with me. That is the reason I have a lot of numbers.

If you have a thousand girls in a venue, and I spend my whole night focused only on one to two girls, I consider this selling myself short. But, again its all about what you want.

I prefer to go to a venue, and set up "dates" for the next week or two with different women vs. going out, getting one girl, then it not working out, then going out AGAIN. Repeat.

I definitely like Brantley's idea of taking a pic and saving it as her icon. Cool man. Cause right now, I use camtacts. Its cool. I just wanted to know how other TRUE players manage meeting so many women.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 9:42 pm 
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At least get a physical connection.

Phone numbers are so generic , most people settle for phone number then leave, because they are afraid to make a move when in fact you're more likely to see the girl again after you made the move..

Kissing is physical , but breaks the tension, so at least get some hand holding or arms around each other before you go for the number.

Slightly off topic I know, but just sayin.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 9:54 pm 
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At least get a physical connection.

Phone numbers are so generic , most people settle for phone number them leave becaus me they are afraid to make a move when in fact you're more likely to see the girl again after you made the move..

Kissing is physical , but breaks the tension, so at least get some hand holding or arms around each other before you go for the number.

Slightly off topic I know, but just sayin.
Yeah. I stopped going for numbers after a month getting back into the game. Numbers mean nothing unless you've actually closed the girl in some shape or form or have some sort of connection.

Once a connection is made, a genuine connection, get the number there and then, tell her you want to keep in contact then bounce to a "quieter" area of the pub/club for a chat then ramp up physical escalation.


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Op we know what you mean, but when you become a true pimp you will realize that at least half the time you will have sex without ever getting her number. The only need for swapping numbers is to work out logistics....and that's it.

Hell half the time I tell girls to swap numbers with one of my friends or one of the girls I run around with and just let them invite them out for me because I seriously DON'T like girls having my number since 1/3 females are bat shit crazy.

You will eventually close your Facebook acct too.


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