I know this may cause a bit of controversy but after reading some blogs and enough posts by guys on a forum, I can easily tell who gets laid and who doesn't. Not going to call anyone out on this at all or point any fingers, just going to talk about it.

When I read comments on some blogs that are long and come off as very frustrated/hateful, I can pretty much say the guy doesn't get laid. When I read a blog that is full of so much negativity (OMG feminism has ruined society), I can pretty much bank on the fact that the guy doesn't get laid often if at all.

I have seen this in myself a lot. When I have enough days without any female interaction and am so stressed out (work and assignments) that I have no time to go out and sarge and have a nice time, I turn into a completely different animal. Some days I become bitter and frustrated, I see a happy couple (some guy with a cute girl) and so many thoughts run through my mind such as "oh ya whatever, she is probably with him for cash" or "he doesn't deserve her, he just got lucky". Jealousy, sexual frustration.

Then when I do get laid (which has started to happen more often as I have taken a break from forums and posting), so many of my troubles are eased. I cannot relate to that part of me that becomes frustrated. Like I am so happy that I do not even feel like getting on the forums to post a "lay report" unless I have time. My mind is in this one state where it is very difficult to piss me off.

A lot of science behind it that I can get into but just comes to show you something doesn't it.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

This is not just about getting laid, but being happy in general. I'm normally an ok person regardless if I get laid or not. I've had a long dry spell and I still liked women and was quite happy.

What I'm trying to say is try not to base your happiness in getting female attention or getting laid, but try to be happy with who you are.

I see where you are coming from and this is good advice but as a young guy it does help. You should be happy with who you are anyways or work to where you can be happy but it sure does help your ego and inner self a lot when you are getting female attention.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

I think it's all about personality. Some people don't get fazed. They don't get stressed. They can have exams, other deadlines, trouble at home, arguments with friends, whatever, all at the same time and still not really be overly bothered by it all. Other people can get upset when they run out of milk and have to have their coffee black one morning. Sex is fun. It's very fun. But at the same time, not everyone is going to become frustrated or angry just because they haven't had it for a while. Personally, I have in the past gone for months without getting laid and my personality doesn't change in any way. It's the same as all this masturbation stuff you read on here - I've tried not masturbating for months and again my personality doesn't change. But then I think sexual frustration channels through other people differently. I'm very rarely sexually frustrated, even in the middle of a fairly long dry patch - I just focus on other things like my work or my friends or my hobbies/sport commitments etc. and sexual frustration just doesn't become an issue.