You are respecting yourself by removing the person from your life because they are not a worthy adversary. You are right, this is a PUA site. But you're in the relationship sub-forum where PUA antics aren't particularly useful. Six figure incomes and swanky apartments don't just come along. And even the lottery comes with a hefty price tag. I think that taking advantage of any situation can have a negative impact on your inner game. It's directly correlated to greed and selfishness. Lying or acting like nothing is wrong so you can get your dick wet one more time by some girl who's already gone behind your back to cheat... that makes you a chump. You can call it what you want. But guys who need to get back at a girl. Guys who need to sleep with a bunch of girls. Or guys who put up with girls who sleep with a bunch of guys all have one thing in common. No self respect. You can argue that all you want. You can say a guy who get's laid all the time is an awesome individual. But you're wrong. A guy who sleeps around all the time is a whore. Just like a woman who sleeps around all the time. You know why people become whores? Because they need the self-validation. They need to feel good about themselves by being wanted sexually by others. Once you overcome this desire and start to focus on what is actually important in life, what actually makes you happy, you will find true fulfillment. This is something that only time will reveal to you.

The same could be said of your opinion: "You can argue that all you want." Fact is that's your perception of it. That doesn't make it right just because you see it that way.

Who wins in life more? Sharks or firsh? In the corporate ladder who gets the swanky and big time positions? Sharks. If you're a timid loser you're not manager material, you're a follower, not a leader. You can't take what you need or want. Same applies to most, if not all, things in life. Grab life by the horns, don't be a pussy and think about your actions and others feelings(Obviously this does not apply to extremes).

Who wins in life more? Sharks or firsh? In the corporate ladder who gets the swanky and big time positions? Sharks. If you're a timid loser you're not manager material, you're a follower, not a leader. You can't take what you need or want. Same applies to most, if not all, things in life. Grab life by the horns, don't be a pussy and think about your actions and others feelings(Obviously this does not apply to extremes).[/quote]

I'm not saying be a timid looser. How does alienating yourself from trashy loose women make you a timid looser. The whole goal of PUA is to get the best, most high quality woman you can get. I hardly see a cheating whore, in that category. Likewise, "a girl who gets cheated on, then sleeps with her cheating BF one last time because she takes advantage of these kinds of situations" is not a top-shelf broad either.

You have to ask which lifestyle makes you happier? Being a good person who values the relationships they have? Or the person who is only out for themselves? I can assure you that there is a far more miserable as the CEO than as the 9-5'er under him. (I should know, myself and all of my clients are CEO's)

This has nothing to do with women and everything to do with life. If you will really look at what it is that makes you happy, you will see that being the shark, as you put it, will only bring you self-destruction. Once you find your own peace and tranquility with your life, you will find it in your relationships too. That starts with letting go with your ego and being the best person you can be.

Yes it does have to do with women! The whole understanding behind them in PUA is that you treat them as if they aren't as important to you as you are to them. If you want a woman you need to be assertive, be able to approach, take the opportunity to talk to them and take advantage of cues they give you.

Yes, you need a certain sense of "peace and tranquility" within yourself to be functional, this is true but it's all down to your perception to get you to that feeling. If you're certain of how you treat a woman and know you treat them fairly you will only be that person. If you, in the past, took advantage of an opportunity such as what any number of guys would do in the OPs situation you wouldn't dirty a future relationship unless you take on the persona of a person who generally does that. If you're fair minded, respectful and have respect for yourself you're able to assess the situation and take what you need from it. Respect is lost when someone does something to disrespect you, therefore you treat them differently and are allowed to. Just because you have no respect for someone and treat them as such does not mean you will treat someone you have respect for in the same way, this just doesn't happen. When you're in a functional relationship with respect you respect the person, you treat them well. If it's dysfunctional, well...

Point is just because you may have done something for yourself doesn't carry over to a future relationship, not if, at your core, you are respectful and treat others with the same respect when they deserve it. OP's GF wasn't respectful. He should fuck and dump her(Obviously HE shouldn't, he's got issues and needs to cut her out). There's nothing about revenge here. It's about what he can get out of the situation.

I did it... I ended it...

Right now, late at night (4 am. here)... I called... She picked up, she was awake.
Wierd to be up this late, but I know she have had trouble sleeping properly the last couple of nights...

Anyway... I asked why she was up, she said she just couldnt sleep and she was tidying up..
I stopped her and said... Listen... I know you have been cheating on me with [some guy]...
She sounded surprised, asked what I was talking about.
I told her to drop it and that this just shows that I was right in not being able to trust her.
Then I hung up...

She immediately called me, but I didnt pick up.

I have gotten the following sms-texts:
"I havent been cheating on you with [some guy]!!! Did he say that??????"
"This is not fucking fair! [some guy's gf] is still using my facebook for her insane ex-bf !!!!!! I have been through this before. Answer me!! I havent been cheating on you!"
"I can prove it!"

And on facebook:
"I havent been cheating on you!"
"Answer me!"

She has been calling ever since...
Holy shit... I feel ALOT fucking better...

Just to make it clear... One time she actually did tell me a story about [her friend] using her FB to flirt with some guy because [her friend]'s BF was checking [her friend]'s facebook. Her ex saw the messages and confronted her, but was relieved to find out that it was just [her friend] and not herself, flirting with some guy.....

So I was pretty much prepared for that LAME-FUCKING excuse, and that just shows that she has been doing this shit before with her ex... Fucking whore.. what the fuck....

I removed any picture I had of her/us from my facebook.
.... aaaaaaaaaand SHE removed me as friend from facebook. (That actually hurt a little)

Thanks guys... phew...

Very well done, sir!

Good for you for being a man and handling your business like a man. You feel great now. Imagine if you'd have slept with her, and had to deal with all this in person, had to explain your own actions and dealt with this drama. That would have been shitty. You left this on a frame that you feel good about and can much more easily move forward from. Very happy for you. I'm holding up my beer to you. :cheers:

I'm the other guy....you wouldn't believe what a freak she is. But I will stop bro you can have that crazy skank.

This girl is so slutty he tried to use her name for a password, and it came back 'error to easy'.

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