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So the story goes like this
I've been gaming a girl in my PSYC class, (We've had 2 classes together)
Anyways, last night was one of my best friend's 21st birthday party so I got trashed and had a horrible hangover that morning. I did not feel like talking or anything and probably looked like shit, actually I know I did because the subway girl told me so.
Anyways I got to class and slept until the teacher got there. Whenever he got there, he had to do something and left the room. The girl initiated conversation with me as soon as I lifted my head. I tried being engaging and funny and all that nonsense but I didn't feel like it. I felt like throwing up. My timing was all off, I was not responsive enough because I just was not focused. I completly avoided C&F because I knew i couldn't give off the right tone. I was basically trying to game with the flu or something.
My question is, is there any way I could have handled this situation?
I feel like I've DLV'd myself because I was not funny or engaging as I should have been.
Is there any way I could have ignored her or something and saved little face?
Are you sure you even need damage control? Are you sure she held anything against you? It sounds like she's already interested, and usually, when you pull back, that just creates more attraction anyway. So . . . how do you KNOW you need damage control?