I met this girl in class and I ended up falling for her. She was dressed kind of provocative so assumed she was wanting to get attention. I decided to approach her and let just say her clothes didn't match her personality. When I actually like a girl I am super nervous when I talk to her versus when I want to get laid I am the most confident person ever. I have a tough time teasing her I keep being that nice guy and I notice that I bore her and kill attraction and keep getting into interview mode. I have never had a girlfriend so I really have no idea how to maintain a relationship. The next time I see her I want to number close and ask for date. What would be some ideas for a date. I really want to move in before another guy beats me to her. I really want this HB9 and she obviously has interest in me but I won't get anywhere if I keep killing attraction and DLV.

killed the attraction so I moved on and I approached a 5 set. Didn't go well but my confidence has gone up so much.

Relax

I figured out she was just shit testing me. She will act like she is no intrested than act interested.

I understand how you feel, when love a person, you will become very nervous, afraid of their performance is not good, but to live for a long time will slowly become relaxed, you should take the best of state to face her, relax.