So I've been talking to this girl for a little over a month now. She's young (18, I'm 20) and I can tell she's inexperienced. She's a freshman. She acts like an angel, she drinks but doesn't smoke. I know for sure that she's interested bcuz she ALWAYS hits me up first, if I take 2+ hrs to respond she'll text again. When I am able to see her in person it's a guaranteed make out, at the very least.
The problem is, I've seen her in person 4 or 5 times now but each time was less than 20-30 minutes, either bcuz I had something to do or she had something to do. She's really flaky, in the sense that she'll act like she forgot that we were supposed to do something. It's not a problem bcuz I have A LOT to keep me busy as well so it's not always her fault that we can't meet up for long or at all. I was joking with her one time after asking her out 3 times, she said yes each time but each time either she forgot or something came up. So I responded with something along the lines of:
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Her: I completely forgot I had somewhere to be for my class at X p.m.
Me: That's fine. lol I give up (I said this jokingly)
Her: No! Don't say that! .... (this was a decent size text with her feeling really apologetic. I ended up shrugging it off as it was no big deal and told myself I wouldn't try again, and she ended up setting something up to see me even though it was for less than an hr)
Also, recently, we were supposed to watch a movie but when she came she said we're not watching a movie bcuz she's not staying for that long, which again, wasn't a huge deal since I made other back up plans with someone else since I kinda predicted that but it is annoying that I can't set anything up in stone with this girl.
So what I'm asking here is, there's two extremes that I can take. I can either make it clear that we need to see each other for longer than 30 minutes at a time, so make sure you don't have anything else to do next time OR I can stop trying to set up a "date" with her and make her feel like I've given up on trying to see her.
If I should go with the first option, I was thinking something like:
Me: "If we don't see each other for longer than an hour soon, we're breaking up. I'm taking the dog and leaving you with the kids.
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Thing with that is, sending that seems like it would be needy and I would cringe while sending it, but again, I feel like that's something I can get away with right now if that's the best option.
I even thought about freezing her out for a day or two and seeing what kind of results I get with that, but that seems like the most risky option.
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"I am Brad Pitt. I am Brad Pitt. Yes I am . . . And you pretty girls are dirty little whores. Yes you are. Yes you are. . . "
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