So a semi-friend of mines ex is laying into me hard. 6 months earlier I had just moved into town and we met at a bar had the best time man, flirting like crazy. But then I found out she was my semi-friends girl (I see him once every 2 months or so) and I backed off.

Fast forward 6 months and because of awesome career opportunities I've been working like 20 hours a day, no social life no girls but rewarding. Well she comes out of the blue and starts texting me a bunch, and we hung out one night and we really kicked it off lots of touching... But she's my semi-freind's ex... kind of an elephant in the room. At one point we got eyes going and I go in for the kiss, and we touch lips but she's like no no we can't do this. But it was very comfortable, she left and said... I know I came on to you but your really fun and really fine... Blam gone. No talking or texts for 2 weeks.

Out of the blue she comes at me with texts late at night "fuck a man law this is bullshit, I just found out he cheated on me with one of my best friends... lets make pancakes at my place" But I was at a party far away and told her next time.

But now it's like full on she's playing games. She texts me 3 times a day and I'll call her sexy or say I like that about you... and she'll be like SHUTUP! DOn"T SAY THAT. But then she'll send me a pic of her and her dog cuddling late at night in her bed, or she texted me about her dildo and that she's bi-sexual.

Yesterday we ichat and I said something like.. That felt good having a deep conversation "it made me realize I should stop working so much. Build more meaningful relationships. Just the word fun comes to mind that is what is u" But it was a type-o I was saying "that is what is up...." ANd she flipped out... are you falling in love me. Your like the 5th guy to profess his love to me this week. I just want you as a friend... I need a friend right now.. I'm trying to find myself. Plus you know my ex. I said no it was a type-o chill the fuck out. I don't think I would ever profess my love to someone on ichat... are you serious?

I've been playing it pretty cool but there is constantly this big huge elephant in the room... that it's wrong, which is also why I think we want it... And obviously she likes to play madddd games... Which I kinda like to do anyways. I just want to fuck her once. Just once but it's made confusing. She sent me a picture of her in a thong last night BTW... She just got in town today... She just texted me 20 mins ago... "Haha lol kitty kat meow... I'm so going ham on this ring pop right now"... Dude this bitch is crazy and because of that reason I want to fuck the shit out of her... just once. Or twice.

Very AFC. At what part did she lead you on? You obviously want to fuck her, you had ample chances to do it, but you didn't because you listened to her when she said "we shouldn't do this." Also, you were at a party far away. If you had the means to get there, you should've done that or at least SCHEDULED something instead of saying "next time." Don't play too cool or else you'll just be neglecting her. Do you think she actually wanted to make pancakes? No. She wanted you to have your way with her, and you could've.

In my opinion, "We shouldn't do this" in that situation meant "let's do this, but I want to go on record saying this wasn't my fault." Women do that shit constantly. You should have just gone in for the kiss anyway, that's what she wanted you to do. Don't listen to what she says. She sends you a picture of her cuddling in bed, or a picture of her at all... that means "stop being an AFC and come take care of business."

Don't pour your heart out to her on iChat. She doesn't wanna hear that shit. That looped you in with the other 5 AFC's that week. Now you have to do some damage control.

Here's my advice:

If you care about your friend, and he's a good friend, and you know he'd be upset, don't do it and tell her you guys are done. (Be prepared for her to possibly hit you up again because you will become more attractive to her IMO)

If you care about your friend and are convinced he wouldn't find out and don't have any moral holdups about it, do it.

If you don't care about your friend as much, or if he's not that close of a friend, do it.

Make plans with her, go over, and go caveman on her slut-ass. She will love it.

One thing is for sure... she was definitely NOT leading you on. You just listened to her words and not her body or her actions.