ok guys.....well i have been known this woman for about three years. i have always been attracted to her but she is married. i met her on a beach on vacation while her marriage was in crisis and we have remained in contact since. In that time the fire between is going and almost burned out, so i thought i need a way to get some excitement going again between us and some fire. so she posted this picture of her on the beach in a g-string exposing her ass.
So i sent her a message back...''(insert name)!!! great ass.''
her reply after reading it ''(insert name) !!!!!!!!!'' and a big jaw dropping emotion and then one of these emotions.
How do i reply? I know that i need to reply with attitude and have control and keep the fire burning and keep cool and calm about it, but im not sure how to. Can you help please before she gets back to me? Im an amateur remember, i need some guidance.

ok so i got tired of waiting around for any replies- it was taking to long. I know that a king takes his time, but i felt like i needed to keep the fire burning. So i sent her a follow up message saying ''i forgot how good it looks. obviously it was a long time since i saw you on the beach, i bet that it feels great too. ''
And then i just decided to write from the heart so i sent her this message......

''im not in school anymore, neither of us are. I can talk about and say anything i want. attraction is a natural and exciting thing that all people talk about.
Its a whole lot better than ''hi Lena, how are you''?.....six weeks later.....''hi Andy, im good thanks, how are you?''....three hours later....''hi Lena, im good thanks, how are you?''
We both came together to begin with because of our attraction to eachother and because we wanted to bring some fun and excitement to eachothers lives. I want to go where the fun is, we both do.
So... you are 33 now?? in your sexual prime You have always seemed like a sensual person with sensual characteristics.''

Was that the right thing to write to her? Keep in mind guys, that im not doing this with her for it to work, im doing it so that i can learn from it - where the people here pick up on the things that i did wrong so that i dont do them next time. If i lose her, well the fire has long gone out between us and this was a last ditch attempt to get some passion out of her and to finally find out what is in her heart, her wants and desires.

come on guys....help me please.

What is your mode of communication?

You have to amp up the 'sexual' attraction. Then you have to meet up and bang her.

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how can i do that? im still learning. I have listened to a couple of cd's on fast seduction but im still learning.

I'll give you a simple one (assuming you using text?).

It's called the "In bed" game.

The rules are simple, ask her if she wants to play a game as you chat, of course she will say yes.

Tell her the only rule is at the end of each message you must include the words "In bed" at the end.

Example "I like ice cream....in bed." you answer the same way. "You do?...In bed"

It won't take very many and she will WANT to be in bed, WITH YOU.

Get to work.

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thank you. we communicate on facebook. when i text her she never texts back because it is too expensive for her, and she replies back the next day.

use IM

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Whenever i talk to her she is always at work and it totally kills the mood because she takes forever to reply.
She lives in another country but she has told me and she has told her husband in the past that she wants to visit me. This was about a year ago but she seems much more closed and guarded to me now. The thing is she has told me enough where i feel like i have almost all of the pieces to put together a puzzle and i think i know how she feels. I feel like i can read her just by the times i have spoken to her on the phone and the pictures i see of her, it tells me everything. She feels the stress of her job, the stress of trying to keep her family together, the stress of trying to make her marriage work and that she wants to let her hair down, to have some fun and to have an escape. She has no pictures with her husband sprinkled over her profile page and you would think that if she was that proud of her marriage that she would want everyone to know. She has one picture with him and its so symbolic because they are so far apart in the picture that you could rip the picture in half and it would seem like a sepearate picture.
I want to tell her this.
I know what i want and im going to get it, i want to get into the sexual mind of this girl who has acted like such a prude for the last three years.

Then quit beating around the bush, or drop it. You've invested 3 fucking years into pussy you have never touched. How big is that pile of Kleenex in front of your keyboard?

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hehe, thank you - i will. i may need to come back here for advice though, im not used to it.
So first the ''in my bed'' game? Its going to be difficult seeing that we dont text and communicate best from messaging on facebook. knowing her she isnt going to get back to me for like two or three weeks or maybe longer. thats her usual pattern.

That's fine Bro, but while your waiting a week a week or two for the queen to respond to your lowly message.

Crawl outta her ass and GO OUTSIDE! Say Hi to some OTHER girl, you never know what might develop.

I challenge you to talk to at LEAST 3 other women THIS weekend!

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ughh she read my messages and didnt reply. I know what her game is, she isnt going to reply to any sexual messages i send her until i change it back to a more platonic topic, and platonic is somehwere that im never going to go again with her. I somewhat expected her to not reply. A king takes his time, i'll get her.
What is plan B? What do i do now?

alright look it's time to face the fact that you might have blown this one. number one she's married. number to you escalate it so god damn quick. you can't jump from just being a friend to trying to hit on her. my best advice to you is stick with your guns don't apologize for it. then say something along the lines of you're beautiful and I won't apologize for saying that but I want more than just beauty. I need three things out of woman other than her beauty I got energy a good outlook on a good personality you got 2 out of 3 that's a good start

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thanks but i know exactly what she will say to that.....''im married and you know this, i can only be a friend to you.'' I know that she is really lying when she says this because she would have stopped talking to me completely once she got back with her husband if she really thought that we could only just be friends because this friends thing is not working- it has killed the spark, the fire that we first had. I know that she didnt want to stay in contact because she wanted platonic talk, it works for neither of us.
Im not apologising though, definately not. She put a sexy picture up of herself for people to comment on it the way i did. I didnt immediately respond to it- i waited a couple of months first.