Hi guys,

I have the problem that girls like to hang out with me and they like me from the moment we first meet. But the problem is a have a highly non sexual frame. I just can't casually touch the girl nor am I able to lead the conversation to a more non "just a good friend" tone.

all girls I've been with first thought that I wasn't interested in her at all.

Right now I'll have a second Date with a really nice and pretty girl. First Date was 3 days ago (met to play tennis together), no touching at all (one hello hug and one goodbye hug).

Tomorrow we'll be cooking dinner at her place together. On friday we'll go to a koncert (she asked me to join her group of 3 girls)

The point is, she has a very friendly, but fully non sexual vibe. so I think she simply wants to make a new friend. She is cracking up over everything I am saying, but I don't know if she behaves like that with other people as well. She is the neighbour and friend of one of my best female friends and we've met 3 times at my friend's before I asked her for the tennis match. So maybe she is being just friendly because I am the friend of her neighbour. She is 26 years old and she seems to genuinely think, that people older than 30 are old people.

I have never been in this situation before, so I can't judge in what situation I am right now

I am 34 years old and had 3 relationships over the last 16 years (2 years, then 13 years and 1 year... longest alone time was 6 months). I have never done flirting and gaming with girls so I just have the knowledge of reading about PU but I have never experienced such situations by myself.

Any advice for me?

And I apologize for my bad English. It is my third language

Read 60 Years of Challenge.