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Hey guys! MAJOR STICKING POINT for me here - I'm pretty good with escalating fast on chicks who have interest in me. They show interest and I can take it from there - it's on.
However with chicks who initially DON'T invest much, or show little interest but still STAY with me, I seem to always eject. I feel like I could raise attraction, just don't know how really. I used to think "time wasters" but these chicks will not walk away or tell me to go away. They will stay and have a conversation with me, but I will be doing 80% of the talking and there is no point where she is hooked. It just never seems to come, but she's letting me escalate on her somewhat (I'm very touchy feely). These chicks are usually good looking, and I want to give them a chance to get to know them. They're just not investing much. As if they like me hitting on them, but that's it.
Any way you guys know how to deal with this? How to raise value or some shit? Or should I just move on? Do I need to game her friends, too? Get their approval?
Basically the chicks that are nice and will have a convo but I guess don't feel a spark, even though I'm escalating, getting close, maintaining eye-contact, etc.
Change topics often to find something she is interested in and escalate physically to the point where she has to invest or eject due to the physical escalation.
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